From internationally renowned authors, Allan and Barbara Pease comes the worldwide bestseller Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps. Men and women are have different values and different rules. Not better or worse – just different. Everyone knew this but very few people were willing to admit it. That is, until Allan and Barbara Pease came along. Their practical, easy–to–read and often controversial book will help you discover the truth about men and women – and teach you what to do about it. They explore why: • Men really can't do more than one thing at a time • Men should never lie to women • Women talk so much and men so little • Men love erotic images and women aren't impressed • Women prefer simply to talk it through • Men offer solutions but hate advice • Women despair about men's silences • Men want sex and women need love Why Men Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps is a sometimes shocking, always illuminating and frequently hilarious look at why the battle lines are drawn between the sexes. Read this book and you'll learn so many secrets about the opposite sex you might never have to say you're sorry again!

Men do listen! They don't feel! As they grow up an anesthetizing of feelings takes place. They're suppressing not only negative emotions, but also the positive emotions. This book is written for anyone who has been frustrated by male/female relationships and wants guidance in understanding the opposite sex. Head off misunderstanding. Finally , help for the male and female interested in improving or saving their relationship. If you're filing for divorce, separated, looking for a mate, alone and trying to understand what went wrong, all is carefully covered. The author is very, very good with word pictures and uses them frequently throughout the book. Another technique is using little vignettes based on true stories to illustrate a point. The Author uses extensive lists to get the readers ideas flowing. Within each chapter are jokes and popular quotations from a wide variety of sources to add a little punch. Some are humorous and others profound. "Marriage, which makes two one, is a lifelong struggle to discover which is that one." Dozens of case studies demonstrating where things went wrong and how they could erode your relationship.

When was the last time you listened to someone, or someone really listened to you? "If you’re like most people, you don’t listen as often or as well as you’d like. There’s no one better qualified than a talented journalist to introduce you to the right mindset and skillset—and this book does it with science and humor." -Adam Grant, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Originals and Give and Take **Hand picked by Malcolm Gladwell, Adam Grant, Susan Cain, and Daniel Pink for Next Big Ideas Club** "An essential book for our times." -Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone At work, we’re taught to lead the conversation. On social media, we shape our personal narratives. At parties, we talk over one another. So do our politicians. We’re not listening. And no one is listening to us. Despite living in a world where technology allows constant digital communication and opportunities to connect, it seems no one is really listening or even knows how. And it’s making us lonelier, more isolated, and less tolerant than ever before. A listener by trade, New York Times contributor Kate Murphy wanted to know how we got here. In this always illuminating and often humorous deep dive, Murphy explains why we’re not listening, what it’s doing to us, and how we can reverse the trend. She makes accessible the psychology, neuroscience, and sociology of listening while also introducing us to some of the best listeners out there (including a CIA agent, focus group moderator, bartender, radio producer, and top furniture salesman). Equal parts cultural observation, scientific exploration, and rousing call to action that's full of practical advice, You're Not Listening is to listening what Susan Cain's Quiet was to introversion. It’s time to stop talking and start listening.

The ultimate guide to the opposite sex from the bestselling authors of WHY MEN DON'T LISTEN AND WOMEN CAN'T READ MAPS. Do you know the top seven things that drive women mad? Or the real reason why women cry more than men? Or what men are looking for in a woman, both at first sight and for the long-term relationship? WHY MEN DON'T HAVE A CLUE AND WOMEN ALWAYS NEED MORE SHOES gives the low-down on some of the issues that have confused men and women for centuries. From channel-hopping to toilet seats, communication to shopping, relationship experts Allan and Barbara Pease show how you can make the most out of your relationships - or at least understand where your partner is coming from. Already an international No.1 bestseller, this is the essential - and highly entertaining - must-read guide to the opposite sex.

Mars and Venus head to work... Day-to-day, face-to-face workplace communication between men and women is often dysfunctional because each gender employs different speech pat­terns. When careers and paychecks are on the line, clear communication is crucial-from the mailroom to the boardroom. Code Switching explains what to say, how to say it, how to be taken seriously, and how to act while speaking with the opposite sex for maximum effectiveness in the workplace. Included are: •How men and women manage conversation, and the value of "chitchat" prior to a meeting. •How men use language to impart information and women use language to build or indicate rela­tionship. •How men use e-mail to emphasize control while women use it to share and build rapport. •How women can use language to build their credibility. •How humor is used as a power play, to build ter­ritory, or to exclude others. •How gender talk creates and shapes work rela­tionships.

A staggering number of women face the monumental challenge of trying to be that everything to everyone. Not surprisingly, in doing so they overlook themselves and as a result their relationships suffer. This book dares women to look inward, become aware and to be accountable for their roles in relationships with men. It is meant to inspire and encourage women to build and develop a successful relationship with themselves and ultimately the men in their lives. It encourages women to be their own cheerleader first. A variety of men, ranging from blue collar to white collar consisting of the verifiable "players" to the "good guys," came forward to share eye-opening truths to help women learn to stop breaking their own hearts. The information provided by these men, along with past experiences and a dash of common sense birthed a book that will bust the readers eyes open to the truth!

The first comprehensive undercover look at the terrorist movement no one is talking about. Men Who Hate Women examines the rise of secretive extremist communities who despise women and traces the roots of misogyny across a complex spider web of groups. It includes eye-opening interviews with former members of these communities, the academics studying this movement, and the men fighting back. Women's rights activist Laura Bates wrote this book as someone who has been the target of many hate-fueled misogynistic attacks online. At first, the vitriol seemed to be the work of a small handful of individual men... but over time, the volume and consistency of the attacks hinted at something bigger and more ominous. As Bates went undercover into the corners of the internet, she found an unseen, organized movement of thousands of anonymous men wishing violence (and worse) upon women. In the book, Bates explores: Extreme communities like incels, pick-up artists, MGTOW, Men's Rights Activists and more The hateful, toxic rhetoric used by these groups How this movement connects to other extremist movements like white supremacy How young boys are targeted and slowly drawn in Where this ideology shows up in our everyday lives in mainstream media, our playgrounds, and our government By turns fascinating and horrifying, Men Who Hate Women is a broad, unflinching account of the deep current of loathing toward women and anti-feminism that underpins our society and is a must-read for parents, educators, and anyone who believes in equality for women. Praise for Men Who Hate Women: "Laura Bates is showing us the path to both intimate and global survival."—Gloria Steinem "Well-researched and meticulously documented, Bates's book on the power and danger of masculinity should be required reading for us all."—Library Journal "Men Who Hate Women has the power to spark social change."—Sunday Times