Communication Is a Skill That Makes Everything Else BetterHave you ever wondered why some people just don't "get it"? When was the last time you were on the receiving end of a bad communication and thought that you "heard" someone else say one thing, only to find out he or she really meant something else? In The Magic of Communication Styles, interpersonal communication expert Paul Endress gives you a simple system you can use to understand your natural communication tendencies and the tendencies of those around you. Then join the story of the employees of 366 Solar as they use Paul's system to understand and become more effective with each other - and show you how to do the same.In these pages you'll discover:* One easy change in thinking that takes seconds to implement and gives you a lifetime of improvement* How to use the Circle of Styles to quickly get better results from every interaction* How to quickly "map" anyone's style so you can instantly understand them* What makes difficult people "difficult" and how to get them to stop their difficult behavior with you* How to turn the four primary motivations behind every communication to your advantageBecome a better communicator now and enjoy the benefits for the rest of your life.

Our personality styles affect all areas of our lives. Communication Skills Magic, helps the reader easility identify the four personality styles - including one's own personality style - and communicate most effectively with each style; prevent or manage conflict with each style, motivate effectively each style; and much more. Self-knowledge, of course, goes beyond communication - the book also helps the reader understand the strengths and weaknesses of each style and gives concrete tips for each style on how to become more productive.

This is an exploration and development of the meta-model, which lies at the heart of communicational excellence in neuro-linguistic programming.

Ever try to explain something to a person who doesn't understand your language? You can talk louder, but it won't help! The same is true of communicating with someone of a different communication style--we must change our approach if our message is to be understood. Consider this book your dictionary for deciphering such communication gaps as: Why does my project manager give me so much more detail than I need? Why does my uncle take everything so personally? Why does this person buy into my presentation when that one doesn't? Use Jackson and Bosse-Smith's unique assessment tool to identify your communication style--Assertive, Animated, Attentive, or Accurate—and learn signals for identifying others' styles. By understanding your own style and that of your colleagues, clients, family members, and friends, you can tailor your approach and content to communicate your ideas more effectively, improving both your relationships with others and your professional success.

Step right up to the exciting three-ring circus of Communication Styles ... No matter where we live of what we do, we deal with people using a wide variety of communication styles every day. At work, in the marketplace and at home, diversity in communication styles presents rich opportunities, yet too often people misunderstand each other. Communication Highwire is an important breakthrough for managers, team leaders, community leaders, educators, trainers and facilitators as they help individuals and teams overcome frustration, prevent mistakes and save time and money. World-class intercultural trainers and educators share their strategies and techniques-and, most importantly, their tools-to leverage diversity in the modern world. Twenty-six powerful activities are ready to go with little preparation. Developed for the first time in this book, the 5-Factor model (Context, Goals, Values, Self-Concept, Communication Style Repertoire) is presented in an easy-to-use Star Chart approach. A 4-Step process puts it all together: combining Factors and Descriptors to enhance communication. Dozens of examples-stories from international business to politics to community development to family life-make the concepts real and applicable. Communicating across a variety of styles requires the skills of a tightrope walker, but the rewards to the performers are immense.

Byron A Lewis MA is the director of the Meta Training Institute, a Northwest Educational and Consulting firm specialising in the techniques of Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Frank Pucelik PhD is widely recognised as one of the world's finest trainers in interpersonal communication and success strategies for change.