Effective Relationships are Work. You are a business and the boss of who you allow in your business. When we meet people we usually want to know if that person is someone I want to hire or benefit from being in a REAL-AtionSHIP with me. Innerviews are Prevention and Intervention tools used to screen and to keep the RIGHT Real-AtionShips IN and GET OUT OR REMOVE the wrong Real-Ationships from our B- US- iness (Us).Effective Relationships are Work. You are a business and the boss of who you allow in your business. When we meet people we usually want to know if that person is someone I want to hire or benefit from being in a REAL-AtionSHIP with me. Innerviews are Prevention and Intervention tools used to screen and to keep the RIGHT Real-AtionShips IN and GET OUT OR REMOVE the wrong Real-Ationships from our B- US- iness (Us).

Expectations At the beginning, during the "dating phase," it is easy to overlook the signs of a brewing gender war. You are in love and in the midst of the exiting "honeymoon stage." During this stage of your romance, you find everything about your partner adorable, sweet and charming (i.e. ordering for you at dinner, expecting you stay at home instead of working outside of the home, focusing on what is happening in his/her life, asking you to wear a certain style of clothing so that others will not flirt with you, etc.). As time progresses, your feelings may change. In other words, things that you once thought were funny and cute (i.e. expecting you to have dinner ready each night and the house clean each day, demanding that you take care of the children by yourself, picking out what you are going to wear each day, etc.) becomes quite annoying. Gender roles are often not completely defined until you get married, but early warning signs can "pop up" during the "dating phase."

A NEW YORK TIMES NOTABLE BOOK OF THE YEAR A GOOD MORNING AMERICA BOOK CLUB PICK Named a Best Book of the Year by The New York Times, The Washington Post, TIME, NPR, Entertainment Weekly, Vanity Fair, O, the Oprah Magazine, Esquire, Marie Claire, Harper's Bazaar, Good Housekeeping, Refinery29, Real Simple, Kirkus Reviews, Electric Literature, and Lit Hub “A masterpiece.” —NPR “No other novel this year captures so gracefully the full palette of America.” —The Washington Post “Wryly funny, gently devastating.” —Entertainment Weekly A funny and profound story about family in all its strange forms, joyful and hard-won vulnerability, becoming who you're supposed to be, and the limits of love. Benson and Mike are two young guys who live together in Houston. Mike is a Japanese American chef at a Mexican restaurant and Benson's a Black day care teacher, and they've been together for a few years—good years—but now they're not sure why they're still a couple. There's the sex, sure, and the meals Mike cooks for Benson, and, well, they love each other. But when Mike finds out his estranged father is dying in Osaka just as his acerbic Japanese mother, Mitsuko, arrives in Texas for a visit, Mike picks up and flies across the world to say goodbye. In Japan he undergoes an extraordinary transformation, discovering the truth about his family and his past. Back home, Mitsuko and Benson are stuck living together as unconventional roommates, an absurd domestic situation that ends up meaning more to each of them than they ever could have predicted. Without Mike's immediate pull, Benson begins to push outwards, realizing he might just know what he wants out of life and have the goods to get it. Both men will change in ways that will either make them stronger together, or fracture everything they've ever known. And just maybe they'll all be okay in the end.

As climate change and development pressures overwhelm the environment, our emotional relationships with Earth are also in crisis. Pessimism and distress are overwhelming people the world over. In this maelstrom of emotion, solastalgia, the homesickness you have when you are still at home, has become, writes Glenn A. Albrecht, one of the defining emotions of the twenty-first century. Earth Emotions examines our positive and negative Earth emotions. It explains the author's concept of solastalgia and other well-known eco-emotions such as biophilia and topophilia. Albrecht introduces us to the many new words needed to describe the full range of our emotional responses to the emergent state of the world. We need this creation of a hopeful vocabulary of positive emotions, argues Albrecht, so that we can extract ourselves out of environmental desolation and reignite our millennia-old biophilia—love of life—for our home planet. To do so, he proposes a dramatic change from the current human-dominated Anthropocene era to one that will be founded, materially, ethically, politically, and spiritually on the revolution in thinking being delivered by contemporary symbiotic science. Albrecht names this period the Symbiocene. With the current and coming generations, "Generation Symbiocene," Albrecht sees reason for optimism. The battle between the forces of destruction and the forces of creation will be won by Generation Symbiocene, and Earth Emotions presents an ethical and emotional odyssey for that victory.

A Romulan time-tampering project has transported the Enterprise and the galaxy into an alternate dimension of reality. Now Kirk is an embittered young ensign and Spock is a besieged Starship commander.