An experience is the process of personally participating in an activity, event or lifestyle. Fantasy does not always translate over to reality because reality must contend with the bodily limitations of the physical world, whereas fantasy enjoys the unlimited boundaries of the imagination. Nevertheless, fantasy is often the product of reality. For one person'TMs fantasy is another person'TMs reality. ; ;Notable FemDom author Elise Sutton examines the Female Domination lifestyle by taking the reader into the personal relationships and sexual practices of everyday people who live astonishing secret lives. ; ;Elise adds her insight and commentary as she examines what constitutes a successful FemDom relationship.

In her third book, notable FemDom author Elise Sutton strays away from the more common lifestyles of FemDom practitioners who pursue relationships based on the principals of loving female authority, and instead she takes an honest look at men who claim to be seeking "unloving female authority" at the hands of a sadistic woman. This book also takes notice of real life experiences of female sadists and the wives and significant others of masochists. Nevertheless, the primary focus of this book is the life of the man from whom the term "masochist" was coined. Many have heard of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch but few have heard his life story. With the narrative of Leopold's sexual journey as its foundation, this book examines contemporary self-described masochists who are in search of a cruel, sadistic woman. In other words, just like Leopold, these men are "Searching for Wanda".

Femdom exists. While many men only fantasize about female domination or pay professional dominas to make them live a few minutes of a pleasure that only those who experience femdom know, there is a small group of us who have dared to take our fantasies beyond the simple imagination making femdom our way of life. I invite you to be one of us. Read this book to share some of the things you can experience, some you will like some you won't, it depends on the level of your submissive nature. If you don't dare to live it and prefer to leave it in your fantasy, then I invite you to read this book to get an idea of what you are missing. For the time being. Femdom exists. While many men only fantasize about female domination or pay professional dominas to make them live a few minutes of a pleasure that only those who experience femdom know, there is a small group of us who have dared to take our fantasies beyond the simple imagination making femdom our way of life. I invite you to be one of us. Read this book to share some of the things you can experience, some you will like some you won't, it depends on the level of your submissive nature. If you don't dare to live it and prefer to leave it in your fantasy, then I invite you to read this book to get an idea of what you are missing. For the time being.

This anthology of true life vignettes offers intimate glimpses into hot BDSM play between a female dominant and her boy. It includes passionate moments that cover the gamut of play: teasing, denial, chastity, flogging, caning, pegging, slapping, and much more. It also includes incredibly sweet exchanges full of tenderness and ownership, lots of kissing, laughter, affection, and silliness. "Your breaths come hard and fast. I bite you relentlessly, thrusting up against you from behind. Every new attack makes you wince and moan, but still you push back against me until I am shoving you up against the wall, tearing at your skin like I am going to devour you."

The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course. This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. Content Foreword - 7 Introduction - 9 About the Author - - 9 How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11 Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12 Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15 Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17 The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19 Why Does a Man Submit? - 20 The Silence Challenge - - 24 The Femdom Mindset - - 28 The Malesub Mindset - - 30 The SSC Principle - 31 The RACK Principle - 33 Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38 Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41 Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52 The Location - - 52 What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57 Greeting the Mistress - 58 Practical Tips - - 60 Practical Examples - - 62 A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63 Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68 Practical Exercise - - 68 Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69 The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78 The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143 The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144 The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146 The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163 Saying No - - 167 Slave Questionnaire - - 169 Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176 Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181 The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181 The Ruined Orgasm - 185 Forced Orgasms - 186 Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191 The Follow-up Conversation - - 193 Hygiene - - 197 Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198 Goals for Femdoms - - 200 The Session Log - - 201 The Slave Contract - - 202 Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227 Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232 Glossary/Terms - 237 Bonus - 249 Reader comments "A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa "Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela "The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy "Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma