Examines nineteenth century etiquette books to determine what manners were like during the period, and looks at their connection with class, ideology, and behavior.

"The American Gentleman's Guide to Politeness and Fashion or, Familiar Letters to his Nephews" by Margaret C. Conkling is written as a series of letter which are intended to guide young men to fit in with society. From how a man is expected to dress, to the manners he's expected to have, this book was a valuable resource to young men who didn't trust they would remember all the rules they needed to follow to fit in.