The nation's leading experts on women's sexual health offer up the secrets to female sexual satisfaction using data culled from their groundbreaking new survey Not since The Hite Report twenty-five years ago has female sexuality been so comprehensively addressed and analyzed. In Secrets of the Sexually Satisfied Woman, Drs. Laura and Jennifer Berman topple common misconceptions and reshape conventional wisdom based on their revolutionary and highly anticipated National Women's Sexual Satisfaction Survey. Extrapolating from the study results, the Bermans address the psychological and medical factors that affect sexuality while providing expert, accessible advice on how women can improve their sex lives and enhance sexual pleasure. The Bermans are not afraid to take on topics that make most people blush, and this book is sure to be an essential resource for women throughout the country.

Traditional sexual intercourse almost always produces an orgasm for men but rarely does for women. This is because the location of the clitoris prevents most women from getting sensitive, appropriate and sustained stimulation when they make love. Full satisfaction for both partners is neither easy nor obvious; it doesn't "come naturally." Astonishingly, almost none of the literature on sex is helpful on this issue. Almost without exception, the "experts" have been asking the wrong questions and are stuck in an old paradigm of how sexual intercourse is supposed to work. As a result, few couples find the advice they need: --Three approaches that allow both partners to get full satisfaction during lovemaking, including simultaneous orgasms, which the conventional wisdom has declared to be virtually impossible --A breakthrough for couples in achieving mutual satisfaction and long-term sexual happiness --Revolutionary ideas that liberate couples from conventional wisdom that doesn't work and helps them communicate about what does

Why are so many women dissatisfied with their sex lives? Something is missing from their intimate encounters: either they’re not interested in sex anymore, or they are interested but can’t get aroused, or they can get aroused but have neither the desire nor the energy to follow through. Their relationships are suffering. Many women find themselves wondering what’s wrong with them. If you’re a woman and any of this sounds familiar, Dr. Anita H. Clayton wants you to know that there’s nothing wrong with you–what’s wrong is the ridiculous fantasies you’ve been sold about sex, and the unrealistic expectations you cling to. We all want to make love the way they do in the movies, where the woman swoons with desire before the man even gets near her and, once he does, gasps, collapses, and hurtles headlong into orgasm in twenty seconds tops. Now, how often does that happen in real life? Not very–because in real life it takes at least that long to get your panty hose off, not to mention locking the door locked so the kids don’t barge in. In this irreverent and revolutionary volume, Dr. Clayton lays bare hidden facets of female sexuality that are rooted in the psyche and can catapult a woman either into a cathartic bout of ecstasy or against the headboard into yet another disappointment. Through compelling case histories she explores why many women would rather put up with unsatisfying sex than tell their lovers how to please them; how buried feelings about childbearing can affect a woman’s erotic potential; and why an orgasm you have during intercourse is no more “real” or legitimate than one you achieve through other means. Dr. Clayton also shines a light on sexual attitudes that have a dramatic impact on young girls and teens, and details how motherhood and menopause may affect but need not diminish a woman’s capacity for sexual pleasure. Dr. Clayton believes that women should have high expectations for their sex lives, but that these expectations should come from visceral, intimate knowledge of ourselves–what is normal for us and what feels good to us. She wants you to consider and eventually own the concept of yourself as every bit as sexual as a sex symbol. Indeed, the only person who should symbolize sex for you is you.

The groundbreaking New York Times bestseller now in a fully revised edition Dr. Jennifer Berman, one of the few female urologists in the United States, and her sister, Dr. Laura Berman, a sex therapist, wrote this comprehensive handbook for the whole woman to examine all facets of her sexual health. They discuss surprising new information about how the female anatomy really works, ways female sexual response changes through various stages of life, how women can recognize and identify sexual problems, and tips for talking to doctors about sexual complaints without embarrassment. This new edition brings all the information in the book fully up to date and includes - advice about the latest medical treatments - information on new drugs and products - a revised exercises section and all-new case studies - a self-assessment questionaire to help women recognize whether a problem exists and lend direction on where to seek help For Women Only is still the most complete guide available to treating sexual problems and achieving full sexual potential.

Why are most women unhappy with their man's performance in bed? Why do most men not have a clue how to sexually satisfy their woman? The author maintains that sexual unhappiness in a relationship is caused by the man's lack of experience, knowledge and understanding when it comes to satisfying his woman. He also maintains that sex is the most important pillar in a relationship, and that without good sex no relationship can survive! These are strong statements, and the book offers powerful solutions by going to the root cause of sexual unhappiness among couples. Written in explicit, uninhibited language, the kind that men can understand, this is an uncensored guidebook that instructs men on how to satisfy their woman. It holds nothing back. The sexual techniques that it details, as well as the wisdom that it presents, will allow men to be able to sexually satisfy their woman the way she dreams of being satisfied. Women will read it too. They'll enjoy the tongue-in-cheek humor and be thrilled that one of the world's best kept secrets (how to make love to a woman) is finally coming out of the closet. If their men don't buy this book, it's certain they'll l be buying it for them.

This innovative look at intimacy helps you to enjoy great sex in your everyday life. By helping the reader connect with her own sexuality, this book teaches women how to find sexual fulfillment by looking at physical and emotional health, and how she feels about herself and sex. Showing how it's possible to combine the reality of everyday life with fantastic sex, renowned sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author Dr. Laura Berman puts sex at the top of the "to do" list, and takes the reader on a journey of self-discovery and pleasure-seeking to a life full of attainable, enjoyable sex. Sex in real life is not the sex we see in the media, and this book's images and advice reflect life and sex naturally. Dr. Laura provides information on techniques and tips on how to maximize your sex life, including how to express your needs and explore new positions. This approachable, no-nonsense handbook give you everything you need to know about sex in relationships, sex on the go, and most importantly, the sex that is right for you!

The #1 New York Times–bestselling author’s “groundbreaking” work on women’s sexual fantasies (Publishers Weekly). First published in 1973, My Secret Garden ignited a firestorm of reactions across the nation—from outrage to enthusiastic support. Collected from detailed personal interviews with hundreds of women from diverse backgrounds, this book presents a bracingly honest account of women’s inner sexual fantasy lives. In its time, this book shattered taboos and opened up a conversation about the landscape of feminine desire in a way that was unprecedented. Today, My Secret Garden remains one of the most iconic works of feminist literature of our time—and is still relevant to millions of women throughout the world. “The author whose books about gender politics helped redefine American women’s sexuality.” —The New York Times