Examples, ideas and discussion for those who follow - or would like to follow - the calling to live in a modern-day Master/Slave relationship. More than a general book about rules, rituals, personal behaviour and etiquette, Rubel offers a glimpse into the complex world of protocols set in the context of a Leather Master/ Slave relationship.

Rather than just a regular book of protocols, The Leatherman's Protocol Handbook documents the history of John D. Weal's experiences with the so-called 'old guard'. It contains details of all of the protocols, positions and hand signals and defines the difference between rituals, etiquette and protocols. It also contains details of past ceremonies, discusses the hierarchy that once existed between various leather organisations and more.

In preparing a book of etiquette for ladies, I would lay down as the first rule, "Do unto others as you would others should do to you." You can never be rude if you bear the rule always in mind, for what lady likes to be treated rudely? True Christian politeness will always be the result of an unselfish regard for the feelings of others, and though you may err in the ceremonious points of etiquette, you will never be impolite. Politeness, founded upon such a rule, becomes the expression, in graceful manner, of social virtues. The spirit of politeness consists in a certain attention to forms and ceremonies, which are meant both to please others and ourselves, and to make others pleased with us; a still clearer definition may be given by saying that politeness is goodness of heart put into daily practice; there can be no _true_ politeness without kindness, purity, singleness of heart, and sensibility.

Many get tripped up over the very concept of written protocols. We've met many Masters who believe that writing out the way they want things done removes creativity from the relationship. That's not the way we see it.In our experience, a protocol manual is much more than documenting rules of service. Writing a protocol manual helps you examine and refine your relationship and your relationship management style. The very process of creating a manual such as this reveals the kinds of service Master really wants from the slave and the kinds of service the slave can actually deliver. In that light, writing a protocol manual is an exercise in clarifying the intent of your relationship.Biased as we are, we assert that protocols help to reprogram both the Master's and the slave's brains. They help you create habits. Protocols don't merely define how you look on the outside, protocols help shape how you think on the inside. Since protocols specify the way Master wants this particular slave to do things, and since people are different from one another, protocol manuals are person-specific.

Within these pages lay the elusive secrets to defining structure and ritual to alternative dominant/submissive and master/slave lifestyle dynamics within your personal life or your community. You will find a definitive resource for building, practicing and maintaining rituals and protocols within your relationship or group, without having to go join a secret society, or convincing someone to mentor you on their private secrets for success.

As a single submissive you don't have to spend every day trying to find a partner and lamenting your single status, you can learn to embrace your single life from someone who has done it all before and who can show you how to use your strengths and transform your weaknesses to make your submission meaningful and thoughtful. In this book, Charmaine Blyss guides you through understanding how to utilize the time spent as a single submissive or slave as a time of deep self-discovery, healing, and growth so that you will have a more fulfilling experience in your Lifestyle journey. She also encourages you to explore the good things the Lifestyle has to offer while preparing for the relationship that you want should that be your desire.The following topics are candidly addressed in the revised edition of Single In The Scene: -Establishing boundaries for self-preservation.-Working through periods of deep yearning during singlehood to reap the benefits.-Assessing your service tool box and learning to be confident in what you offer.-Learn how to put together a service resume as a part of a formal petition.-Better understanding vulnerability and transformation in relation to submission.-Addressing self-sabotaging behaviors and cultivating contentment no matter your relationship status.Single In The Scene was written with you in mind! It serves as a means of encouragement, providing hope, comfort, and it has been written to help you to know that you're not alone in what you experience. It is a timeless work and will remain relevant for many generations to come.

About this book: A servant serves Master's needs or is fired; A slave serves Master's wants or is released. However, Master's wants must not trump slave's needs, Even when playing by RACK standards. slave is in service to Master; However, Master is in service to the relationship. Welcome to the complex and elegant World of Master/slave relations. This is a revised and substantially expanded version of my prior book, Master/slave Relations: Handbook of theory and practice. Even if you've read that one, this is substantially different. This is a book both for people starting out in M/s and also for people who have been involved for a few years. The second book in this series, Master/slave Mastery: Refining the Fire - ideas that matter is intended for those who have been involved with the Master/slave world for 5+ years. Together, these books are core readings for anyone interested in living in a structured, authority-imbalanced relationship.