As a psychotherapist, I have observed that many folks have trouble making peace with their emotionally disconnected (neglectful or superficial) relationships with their parent/s. They have difficulty tolerating the loss and loneliness that so often describes not having a deep connection. It can be difficult to understand and accept your emotional detachment from your parents. The unprocessed tension can create obstacles in feeling safe in other relationships, and in reparenting yourself (being there for yourself). It can be even more difficult to explore your emotional disconnection when it requires coming face to face with the realities of your childhood. Integrating the past into your present experience can be painful. This guide focuses on making peace with your reality through building self-understanding, acceptance, and mourning.

This book takes you on an intense personal journey that will lead you deeper into yourself and closer to the connections with your parents. You do not need the involvement of your parents to do this. Yes, father or mother may even have passed away already. The result of the journey: more inner peace, more self-confidence, more strength and more joy of life. And actual encounters with parents become more relaxed and friendly.Would you like to improve your relationship with your parents? Maybe you feel an inner distance, maybe you have withdrawn from them a bit or have completely broken off contact. Perhaps you are also angry or hurt and never want to have anything to do with them again. If this is the case, the first step is important for you: you do not have to forgive your parents in order to come to peace with them. You have a right to your reproaches. But all further steps will help you to find new perspectives. Reconciliation then sometimes falls into your lap as a fruit that has ripened by itself. It is worth it! The relationship with father and mother shapes one's own life and has a deep influence on the success of one's own partnership, on the relationship with one's own children and the satisfaction with one's own life.In my more than 25 years of work on reconciliation between children and parents, 7 steps have emerged which are useful to come to peace with the parents in depth. In addition, I talk about further blockades which come from the family system and which sometimes have to be dissolved. These steps and other important insights are conveyed practically in this book. You will experience the essence of my seminars and will be specifically instructed to take important steps inwardly.

“Making Peace with Your Parents is compassionate, well-written, and will be of great value to many.”—Leo Buscaglia No matter how old you are and whether or not your parents are alive, you have to come to terms with them. This wise and practical book will show you how to deal with the most fundamental relationships in your life and, in the process, become the happy, creative, and fulfilled person you are meant to be. “A marvelous and helpful book on how to release the emotional pains of growing up, to forgive and release the feelings of guilt, and to celebrate the miracle of being alive. Dr. Bloomfield’s book is worth thousands of dollars of therapy.”—Elisabeth Kübler-Ross “No one book can resolve a lifetime of hurts and misunderstandings, but it can remove the blinders from our eyes. Make an effort now.”—Los Angeles Times

ARE YOU A CHILD OR AN ADULT EMOTIONALLY NEGLECTED BY YOUR FOLKS? KEEP READING!! Did you grow up with an emotionally unavailable, or self-centered parent? Over time you may have encountered and endured feelings of anger, rejection, betrayal, or abandonment arising from the sense of emotional neglect by your parents. your childhood might have been a time when your emotional, psychological and mental needs were not met, when your feelings were dismissed and played down on, or when you started early in life as a child to assume adult responsibilities due to emotional detachment of your folks. These are wounds that have stayed over time in your heart that you might have thought it will be difficult or impossible to heal, hence developing some unintended hate and indifference towards your folks. However, the emotional injury can be healed, and you can move forward in your life understanding your parents the more. In this amazingly insightful book, Bella Gibson Anderson with her wealth of knowledge as a family therapist in the United States of America has exposed the complicated nature of parents who are emotionally unavailable for their children. Due to popular demands, she tried her best in creating a lasting solution to the emotional problems of people, (both adults and children) who feel cheated damaged by their parents hence the publication of Secrets to coping with emotionally unavailable parents. Secrets to coping with emotionally unavailble parents will help you to discover amazing simple and practicable secrets that can help both the children of the emotionally unavailable parents and the parents of such victims in making amends. This is because most of these parents where also victims of parental neglect and dismissiveness. In this book, you will discover: How to identify emotionally unavailable parents The effects of having emotionally detached/unavailable parents. Grown-up practices or attributes of people who had emotionally distant parents. The lasting secret but practicable solutions to this disorder. In Short: this book is amazing and good for parents who wants to understand why they act in certain unlikable manners towards their children, children who wants to heal from the effects of emotional unavailability of their parents and soon to be parents who do not want to make the mistakes of their parents with their own children. Give your heart a chance of healing by getting this book. Amazing results awaits you. Kindly scroll up and click on the BUY button to have your own copy.

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[This title] operates on the radical premise that neither child nor parent must dominate. -- Review.