Author Key Barrett started out writing a journal for chastity. He decided that he wanted to be locked up in chastity for seven days in order to better understand the motivation behind chastity and the emotional aspects so he could write about it with greater understanding in both his fiction and nonfiction. So he spoke with his wife and she agreed to let him go seven days in chastity with her holding the key, only unlocking him if he needed it for safety reasons, to make sure everything is working properly, or if she had sexual interest in freeing him. What started as a simple one week journal quickly blossomed into something else entirely. By the third day he was feeling butterflies just when his wife touched his hand. By day four, she noticed he was much more engaged in their household and being an active and proactive partner. What started as a week for him quickly became two weeks for them both to journal. Through chastity and communication, they identified a sexual trade-off that existed in their marriage, a 'barter system' wherein every action he engaged in had an undercurrent of sexual pressure, a literal tat-for-tit. Freed from it through a chastity device, they were able to enjoy each other on a more meaningful and trusting level. And in lowering the quantity of sex, they raised the quality. This book takes what they learned, plus surveys and research derived from male chastity users, and shows couples how they too can end the barter system, increase communication and bring back the courtship phase, butterflies and all. Learn what you can do to improve your marriage, increase intimacy, feel more connected emotionally, and make her daily life easier with a simple, sexy, fun exercise in chastity.

What is 'Female Leadership'? It's accepting that 'She knows best' in all matters. From the finances to the household to how best to accomplish long-term goals. It's trusting in Her judgement to run things and embracing 'Her way'. This doesn't make the man weak, just the opposite, because men are the best at 'getting things done' when the task is clearly defined but difficult to do. A Female Dominant Household plays to both side's strengths and minimizes weaknesses, leading to Female empowerment, greater satisfaction in the relationship, trust, bonding and yes, mind-blowing sex.Surrender, Submit, Serve Her seeks to help implement your Female Led household through tools like the Command and Conquer meeting (commanding and conquering tasks and roadblocks, not people), laying out the contract of servitude (clearly defining her dominion and removing unnecessary confusion) and crafting your own pledge that personalizes and empowers the act of his submission.Surrender, Submit, Serve Her has been nominated for the BDSM Writers Con 2017 Golden Flogger Awards for BEST BDSM Book of the Year in the Non-fiction category.Updated for 2018! Better formatting and new content.

The Female Quixote completely inverts the adventures of Don Quixote. While the latter mistook himself for the hero of a Romance, Arabella believes she is the fair maiden. She believes she can fell a hero with one look and that any number of lovers would be happy to suffer on her behalf.

A non-threatening, female-friendly introduction to the topic of male chastity, ideal for nervous keyholders or as a love-offering from a would-be-chastened male.

Six Steps for Turning Marriage Back Into Passionate Courtship: WORSHIPPING YOUR WIFE recommends a return to courtship, that time when a man and woman find each other most mysterious and magnetic. Husbands, by elevating their wives, find themselves becoming romantically obsessed again. Marriages, even after years of dormancy, begin to pulse with a new and potent eroticism.The ideal book for men to introduce their female partners to Loving Female Authority or Female Led Relationships — and for women to hand-deliver to the men in their lives, with salty or salient passages highlighted.

Much of the material has been published in McClure's magazine. cf. Pref.

This fascinating, detailed study of the techniques and effects of male chastity is a really comprehensive study of this very popular disciplined regime which can be used for pleasure or punishment, or both. Keeping the male deprived of satisfaction, often for long periods, can give the woman GREAT satisfaction! When orgasm for the man is delayed - or completely denied - the focus is shifted from HAVING an orgasm (often involving anxiety) to NOT having an orgasm (involving humility, patience, and loving attention to the dominant female). This exciting new book looks at topics like choosing and fitting his device (metal or transparent plastic), asking permission to be released and then being made to wait longer, using edging techniques, causing the male embarrassment in front of others, having to sit down to urinate, learning not to question the Mistress' decisions, and accepting hard corporal punishment when needed as part of the overall lifestyle of abstinence, denial and discipline. (See chapters list for much more.) Jade Greenaway (Mistress Jade) and Mark Maguire have both written numerous books on adult discipline and punishment as part of consensual, loving relationships - all still currently available - and here they collaborate on this comprehensive look at this rapidly "trending" topic. Mistress Jade says "Life nowadays is very stressful. You can achieve peace of mind by giving away control over your genitals and ejaculations. Yes, the chastised male will certainly experience the most overwhelming frustration when prevented from having an orgasm for very long periods, but he can learn to please his woman rather than himself." Mark Maguire agrees. "The Mistress makes all decisions on behalf of the man, so the sub male is freed from all responsibility in that respect. However, there are severe consequences for any kind of disobedience as far as Jade and I are concerned. She uses a hard backed wooden hairbrush to spank me when necessary, and when I've deserved a bit more discipline, she has her favourite whippy, rattan cane which is always to hand. Wow does that cane of hers STING!" Read right now about the intense bond of intimacy and respect that can grow out of an adult consensual chastity and discipline lifestyle in "Chastity, Control and Correction for Men" by Mark Maguire (with Mistress Jade).