A fresh approach to matters of the heart, teaching us that success in love need never again be just a matter of luck.

What do you believe about life? What is its purpose? Are you happy, fulfilled, and content? Scripture tells us that you can find the peace, joy, and fulfillment that all of us desperately want through right relationships with God and each other. Jesus summarized our purpose by telling us to love God and love people. Simply put, life is all about relationships! God has hardwired us to find life's greatest joy and peace in relationships. The Bible explains the reality of our broken lives. We are broken people living in a broken world. The life that we now know is marked by frequent pain and suffering and then ends in death. God desires for us to preserve through the suffering of this world and find purpose and fulfillment in our relationship with Him and our relationships with others. Through Christ, we can find healing and hope for this world and for the next.

Two veteran psychiatrists unravel the mystery of how thought and emotional patterns are passed from parents to children, generation after generation, "conditioning" each of us in ways that endure throughout our lives and affect all of our relationships. Living on Automatic not only introduces the concept of emotional conditioning, including how it occurs and becomes entrenched in our minds, but also explains how individuals can "decondition" themselves to become more adept at choosing and negotiating more rewarding relationships. Authored by two psychiatrists, the text draws from more than 80 years of their combined psychotherapy work with thousands of people. The authors focus on helping readers to understand their roles in relationships and to develop more rewarding relationships. Case studies and questions are provided to illustrate emotional conditioning and the personality roles that emerge from it. Readers will learn why people choose the mates that they do; why the ways we learn to relate as children often do not change later in life; and how to observe and engage in introspection to begin to decondition themselves from auto-pilot, knee-jerk emotional responses, allowing for the formation of better relationships with their spouse or partner, children, and other family members.

Having successfully helped readers develop a solid prayer life with the best-selling release of A Praying Life, author Paul Miller applies his expertise to an even more important issue—love. After all, love is what holds all things together, it's what we're looking for, it's what we all need, and it's what we must learn how to give. But loving people is hard. Our neighbors, friends, kids, spouses, and even our enemies require a relentless, self-giving demonstration of love that only God can produce within us. Taking his cues from the perseverance and faithfulness portrayed in the book of Ruth, Miller sheds light on a biblical portrait of love that is sure to give us hope and transform our souls. Here is the help we need to embrace relationship, endure rejection, cultivate community, and reach out to even the most unlovable as we discover the power to live a loving life.

We all have these. Sometimes, they can be the most wonderful treasure this world has to offer. At other times, they can break your heart. Im talking about relationships. Everybody has a myriad of different relationships in this adventure called life. Each relationship has its own dynamics, its own foibles, and its own language. We interact with parents, children, siblings, co-workers, spouses, authority, and, for some, even God. The greatest resource of joy, progress, hope, and prosperity is in connections with each other. But the problem is that the way we develop, sustain, and communicate in relationships is unhealthy. The reason they are unhealthy is because we as individuals bring error into them from the past and from harmful views of ourselves. If you cant think healthy about yourself, how can you interrelate with others in beneficial relationships? How can you have a strong family and an intimate love life if you dont know how to communicate or meet each others needs? What would be the purpose of building friendships if you dont know how to nurture and sustain them? This book is designed to answer all those questions and more. Each chapter builds on how to improve yourself, your self-image, and the relationships around you. You will discover from documented research how your brain works in diverse situations, the different ways you handle conflict, how to communicate effectively with others, and how to build the theme of Us-ness in lifes important relationships and much more.

With a mix of genuine forgiveness, honest communication, and a strong desire to make things better, any relationship can improve. Our circumstances won’t change, however, as long as two people focus on each other’s faults. And the worst thing we can get from a less-than-perfect relationship is a negative attitude toward life. This book guides you through the timeless insights of Colossians 3, wise counsel that can help you change the way you relate to others. The keys: Let go of imperfections, learn to forgive, and start living virtues like compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience.

Detailing a nine-step approach to lasting love, David Coleman, also known as The Dating Doctor shares his own life-defining moments and reveals how personal actions, choices, and behaviours affect one's life and the lives of loved ones. Different self-improvement themes are explored, including being respectful, healthy, mindful, and committed. Marriage statistics, lists, and exercises elaborate on and validate the practical advice provided.