Every day of life, men are under so much pressure from society to conform. If you're a man, you might be feeling the blows of the media frenzy on how men should behave. We keep reading of sexual accusations made by women. Often, they seem to be about the kind of stuff men have done since time began. Our masculinity is a trait that we were born with, and not something we bought online. FACT: Men want to have sex with women. We have hormones that effect our moods, same as women do. Our testosterone levels make us horny, and drive us to search for sexual encounters. We try our luck and take risks. Women want us to take these risks, to prove our commitment to them. My opinion is, that you should not stop behaving in a masculine way, all because of the media hype. Be proud of your masculinity, because that is what makes you attractive to women. Play the game and show any prospective partner, that your worth taking a chance with. This book will help you reassert your masculinity. I want to show you how to behave as the man that nature intended, and not the shrinking violet. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, and being kind and respectful. Don't be nice though, because you're trying to follow the latest fads and trends. Don't shave off all your body hair and smell sweet, because some effeminate model of a soy boy tells you that's how a man should behave. Forget that kinda nice. Keep your body hair and be proud of it; it's part of being a man. You will soon learn that being born a man, and acting like a man, are two different things. For instance, a man does NOT have a feminine side to his nature, real men never have and never will. Sure, you can be a tender and considerate lover. But, to share that side of yourself with a woman, you first need to show her that you're a real man. My book will show you how to emphasize your confidence and not hide your true identity. Don't have any shame about your sexual desires; act upon them. If a woman sets your pulse racing, and you feel that you have to have her, act on those impulses, immediately. Don't dither, deciding what your gonna say to her. Grasp that first moment or it will pass by, and someone else will be in there. I'm not saying be rude, or act like a bully to get a woman. Show her respect. At the same time make sure she senses your masculinity. It's the best-known aphrodisiac there is. This book will give you the confidence, and the skills, to be the man who makes the moves. As a man, you have the responsibility to show the world, that men and women are not equal. Men DO have the right to show off their sexual needs. Men are takers, but they are protectors too. If you feel attracted to a woman, approach her, don't be afraid. Learn to do it the right way, as I will show you in this guide. Find your courage and stand up to those pressures in society that are trying to take your masculinity away. Stand tall, and look everyone in the eye. Turn on the charm and make her want you. Do NOT be afraid of making your move. Be more afraid of not making it. Already the world of masculinity is in danger of emasculation. The day we stop finding women attractive, then there is no hope for mankind.

The New Male Sexuality addresses the most urgent questions of men today--and of the women who love them. Bernie Zilbergeld reports findings from his twenty years as a psychologist specializing in human sexuality, as well as those other experts in the field, and shares his own and his clients' experiences. the result is the most comprehensive guide ever to enhancing desire and arousal, focusing on pleasure rather than performance, and keeping sex exciting and fulfilling. Clear, comprehensive, witty, and refreshingly realistic, The New Male Sexuality is destined to be a classic of the nineties and beyond.

In recent decades, men have begun to question seriously their traditionally held roles and values. The women's movement, popular books, and male images on television and in films have all contributed to men's uncertainty about themselves. There is a major shift taking place in the perception of sexuality. James Nelson asserts that men and women seek something the sexual revolution did not provide: an understanding of the true meaning of love. This, he claims, is the unfinished business of that revolution.

This accessible guide confronts myths and pressures surrounding men and sex, promoting a positive and healthy model of male sexuality that replaces traditional expectations. The chapters in this book engage with cultural assumptions about male sexuality, from harmful early messaging, to the importance of enjoying intimacy, pleasure, and eroticism over the age of 60. The authors challenge the effects of toxic masculinity and traditional gendered roles in sex, celebrating sexual diversity, confronting double standards, and empowering men and couples to develop an equitable sexual bond. Case studies and psychosexual skill exercises are integrated throughout to make each concept personal and concrete, and incorporate the Good Enough Sex (GES) model to promote an authentic sexual self throughout the lifespan. With a focus on mutual consent and pleasure, Contemporary Male Sexuality offers a new model of male sexuality that helps men and couples achieve a satisfying, secure, and sexual bond, replacing damaging expectations with healthy sexual values.

Every Crisis Has an Answer The public spotlight showcasing how men should not behave has revealed the stark truth that men are struggling to find their place in a changing world, but few role models are lighting the way forward. Drawing on his 20-year career as a sexuality and leadership coach for men, Destin Gerek brings the full tour de force of his extraordinary lived experience as the Erotic Rockstar and acclaimed professional expertise to create inspiring new models of possibility for men. In The Evolved Masculine, Destin spearheads this new paradigm through compelling (and at times explicit) personal stories and practical proven techniques, which show men how to have greater confidence, more and better sex, and hotter, more satisfying relationships with women. Evolution has taught us that it is neither the strongest nor the most intelligent that survive, it is those who are most adaptable to change. Men are being called to rise, to redefine their roles. And, amid this "crisis of masculinity," the men committed to walking the Evolved Masculine path are leading the way.