"How many times have you uttered a standard, knee-jerk phrase when trying to counsel a young child or respond to irritating behavior? Even when it's clear our typical verbal reactions and directives aren't working, many adults just don't know what to say instead. Changing the way we talk may be a daunting prospect, but What not to say: tools for talking with young children succeeds in steering parents, teachers, nannies, and others in how to revamp their communication with 1- to 6-year-olds. By understanding the importance of what children hear from us and utilizing the book's practical tools, readers can begin to think twice and alter how they typically speak to the children in their lives. Confrontations and misunderstanding can be turned around with clarity, honesty, consistency, and humor." --Publisher description.

Monica Costa, Editor of London Mum's wrote:This is an incredible book full of so many practical examples. No bullshit. No political correctness. Just truth and hard facts. Bringing up children is the most difficult job in the world and although babies do not come with a manual, 'I was the Perfect Parent...then had kids', is as close as it gets. It's the only parenting book that I believe mums and dads all over the world should read to help them create the foundations for a sustainable, happy and balanced family - told from a genuine and honest voice. Dan Clark, CSP, CPAE New York Times Best Selling Author of The Art of Significance:'I was the Perfect Parent...then I had Kids', is more than a 'how-to' manual on parenting skills. Because of her passionate insight and extraordinary experiences, it is a 'behavioral bible' that addresses the toughest parenting issues of setting expectations and boundaries with consequences, while providing real-life solutions. Dr. Doug A. Schneider Speaker, Pastor, Writer, Coach, Husband and Dad wrote:Lynda's wisdom and practical insights are invaluable. Her unique way of saying things is as good as the substance of what she says.

Are you tired of feeling like you have to be the perfect parent? Do you constantly compare yourself to others and feel guilty for not measuring up? It's time to ditch the "Perfect Parent" myth and embrace imperfection. In the book "Why We Should Ditch the Perfect Parent Myth," you will learn how to let go of unrealistic expectations and foster resilience in both yourself and your children. The pressure to be perfect can be overwhelming. From social media to parenting books, we are bombarded with images and advice on how to be the perfect parent. But the truth is, no one is perfect, and striving for perfection only leads to stress and guilt. In this book, you will learn how to embrace imperfection and let go of the need to be perfect. Guilt is a common emotion for parents, but it doesn't have to consume you. By letting go of guilt, you can focus on building resilience in yourself and your children. Resilience is the ability to bounce back from setbacks and challenges, and it is a crucial skill for both parents and children. This book will teach you how to foster resilience in yourself and your children, so you can navigate the ups and downs of parenting with confidence. Vulnerability is often seen as a weakness, but it is actually a strength. By embracing vulnerability, you can build authentic connections with your children and create a strong parent-child bond. This book will show you the power of vulnerability and how it can transform your parenting journey. In addition to embracing imperfection and vulnerability, this book will also teach you how to challenge unrealistic expectations and redefine success. It will guide you in creating a supportive community and seeking professional help when needed. You will also learn the importance of sharing experiences and resources with other parents, as well as cultivating gratitude and learning from mistakes. By the end of this book, you will feel empowered to be a good enough parent and create a positive parenting legacy. You will have the tools and knowledge to build a strong parent-child bond and navigate the imperfect parenting journey with confidence. If you're ready to ditch the "Perfect Parent" myth and embrace imperfection, then this book is for you. Get your copy of "Why We Should Ditch the Perfect Parent Myth" today and start your journey towards being a more resilient and authentic parent. Plus, when you purchase this book, you will receive a bonus gift: "How To Be A Super Mom" absolutely free. Don't miss out on this opportunity to transform your This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents Why We Should Ditch the Perfect Parent Myth The Pressure to Be Perfect Embracing Imperfection Letting Go of Guilt Fostering Resilience The Power of Vulnerability Building Authentic Connections Teaching Children Resilience Dispelling the Superparent Myth Recognizing Individual Strengths Celebrating Small Victories Embracing Self-Compassion Practicing Self-Forgiveness Cultivating Mindfulness Shifting the Parenting Paradigm Challenging Unrealistic Expectations Redefining Success Creating a Supportive Community Seeking Professional Help Sharing Experiences and Resources Embracing the Imperfect Parenting Journey Cultivating Gratitude Learning from Mistakes Empowering Parents to Be Good Enough Building a Strong Parent-Child Bond Creating a Positive Parenting Legacy Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?

Your go-to guide for your parenting questions, from the author of the breakthrough No-Cry series "Perfect Parenting will give you the tools you need to feel confident as you raise your children. This handy reference book may become an indispensable part of your family's life." -- from the foreword by William Sears, M.D. Perfect Parenting is parenting with a plan. It is based on: action, not reaction thoughtfulness, not anger knowledge, not chance common sense, not nonsense This A-Z guide of practical ideas will inspire you to find the right answers for the many discipline and behavior issues you face every day. Inside you will find many options and methods that can help you be thoughtful in your approach to raising your children. You'll learn what to do about back talk, dawdling, interrupting, stubbornness, whining. You'll find ways to get your kids to do the chores, stop ignoring you, and clean up their own messes. You'll even learn what to do about other people's children! Elizabeth Pantley designed a questionnaire addressing discipline problems and sent it to hundreds of parents. Their answers shaped this book to make it the most useful, practical book on discipline available today.

You scour the Internet, you read every book you can find, you devour newspaper article after newspaper article, you purchase magazine subscriptions, and watch hours of television programing, determined to become the perfect parent. You feel you must be the perfect parent. Doesn't every child deserve a perfect parent? What type of parent would you be if you did not want the very best for your child? In your quest for perfection, you even turn to your own parents for advice. Still seeking the answers, you buy this book. What exactly, then, does it take for you to be the perfect parent? The essays in this book will help you to better understand children and child rearing. You will gain confidence in your ability to "Do what works!", whatever that may be. It is my sincere hope that you will lay down the notion of perfection in parenting, for there is no such thing! Learn to be gentle with yourself, and with your children. Be generous - generous in terms of patience, compassion, and forgiveness, with yourself and your children. If you can grasp and accept the concept that there is no such thing as perfection, along with the understanding that there is no one right way to parent, you will be placing yourself on a good and healthy path - healthy for you and for your children.

Are you tired of trying to be the "perfect" parent? Look no further! In the thought-provoking book, "Why the Perfect Parenting Style Doesn't Exist," you will discover the truth behind the myth of the perfect parenting style and learn how to embrace a personalized approach that works for you and your child. In this book, the author delves into the different parenting styles and helps you understand their strengths and weaknesses. From authoritative parenting, which focuses on finding the balance between setting boundaries and being supportive, to permissive parenting, which nurtures freedom and independence, and authoritarian parenting, which can be strict yet supportive, you will gain valuable insights into each style. Recognizing individual differences is crucial in parenting, and this book explores the role of temperament in shaping your child's behavior and personality. You will also learn how to adapt your parenting style to the changing developmental stages of your child, ensuring that you provide the necessary support and guidance. Parenting comes with its fair share of challenges, and this book offers practical solutions for dealing with behavioral issues and building healthy parent-child relationships. You will discover the power of self-reflection and self-compassion, as well as the importance of embracing imperfection and learning from your mistakes. The book concludes with a reminder to embrace a personalized approach to parenting, understanding that there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Each child is unique, and as a parent, it is essential to tailor your approach to their individual needs. To further enhance your understanding, the book includes a frequently asked questions section, addressing common concerns and providing additional guidance. If you have any questions or comments, the author encourages you to reach out for support. As a bonus, when you purchase "Why the Perfect Parenting Style Doesn't Exist," you will receive a complimentary copy of "How To Be A Super Mom," a guide filled with practical tips and advice to help you navigate the challenges of motherhood. Don't waste any more time striving for perfection. Embrace the freedom of a personalized parenting approach and create a loving and nurturing environment for your child. Get your copy of "Why the Perfect Parenting Style Doesn't Exist" today and start your journey towards becoming the best parent you can be. This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents Why the Perfect Parenting Style Doesn't Exist The Myth of the Perfect Parenting Style Understanding Different Parenting Styles Authoritative Parenting: Finding the Balance Permissive Parenting: Nurturing Freedom Authoritarian Parenting: Strict vs. Supportive Recognizing Individual Differences The Role of Temperament Adapting to Changing Developmental Stages Parenting Challenges and Solutions Dealing with Behavioral Issues Building Healthy Parent-Child Relationships Embracing Imperfection and Self-Reflection The Power of Self-Compassion Learning from Mistakes Conclusion: Embracing a Personalized Approach Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?

Following the wildly popular Vertical Marriage with the same charming, relatable dialogue between mom and dad, bestselling authors and national hosts of FamilyLife Today Dave and Ann Wilson dive headlong into the monumental task of parenting in the 21st century. Raising kids with hearts for Christ may be the hardest thing you ever try to do, but it's also the most important thing. Packed with funny and honest stories, compelling illustrations, biblical insight, and practical steps you can put into practice today, this hands-on parenting manual will encourage and equip every parent through any stage. Founders of a multi-campus church and family coaches with 30 years of experience, Dave and Ann share the hard-earned but easy-to-apply principles that ensure a strong parent-to-child relationship and a strong foundation for your child. You'll get a front-row seat to the multidimensional nature of parenting through a conversational back and forth between Mom and Dad and even comments from their adult sons on what worked, what didn't work, and why. An inspiring and resourceful guide, No Perfect Parents will cover essential topics like learning to discipline without losing your mind or causing more chaos, the parenting guilt trip, the teen years, and the top five parenting mistakes. For parents and couples preparing to have children, Dave and Ann offer hope and strategies that really work, and some that didn't. No Perfect Parents will let you into the real, even raw, struggles and joys of raising kids that can impact their generation in a powerful way. To get the legacy that you've been praying for, start here. Your kids will thank you later.