Cheating within the sanctity of marriage can be a heartbreaking experience for both the faithful spouse and for the one who has strayed. Author Montrayal Carnell James knows the feeling all too well; his cheating almost cost him his marriage. Now committed to helping others avoid the same life-shattering experiences, James shares his compelling personal story coupled with spiritual wisdom and concrete advice that asks probing questions leading to behavior and attitude changes. James has already discovered that the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. While encouraging others to accept God as their significant other, he lays out a step-by-step process that provides guidance for those tempted by outside influences to look within to find fulfillment with Gods helpan important step that can strengthen marriages and help prevent straying outside the relationship. He also includes counsel on how to persevere in a committed relationship, even during the most challenging times, as well as advice for the faithful spouse on how to forgive, heal, and move forward with an unfaithful partner. God, I Cheated on You shares a ministers introspective personal story as he uses his own experiences with unfaithfulness and guidance from above to help others resist temptation.

Let's face it. You just can't fit everything in. Decide what commitments you can cheat on - and how to truly please God with your twenty-four hours.

Cheating within the sanctity of marriage can be a heartbreaking experience for both the faithful spouse and for the one who has strayed. Author Montrayal Carnell James knows the feeling all too well; his cheating almost cost him his marriage. Now committed to helping others avoid the same life-shattering experiences, James shares his compelling personal story coupled with spiritual wisdom and concrete advice that asks probing questions leading to behavior and attitude changes. James has already discovered that the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. While encouraging others to accept God as their significant other, he lays out a step-by-step process that provides guidance for those tempted by outside influences to look within to find fulfillment with God's help--an important step that can strengthen marriages and help prevent straying outside the relationship. He also includes counsel on how to persevere in a committed relationship, even during the most challenging times, as well as advice for the faithful spouse on how to forgive, heal, and move forward with an unfaithful partner. God, I Cheated on You shares a minister's introspective personal story as he uses his own experiences with unfaithfulness and guidance from above to help others resist temptation.

This is a true story that every husband and wife should read. Bob and Audrey Meisner had it all: a fruitful ministry, three beautiful children, a picture-perfect marriage. Their future seemed secure and their prospects bright-- until adultery threatened to bring it all crashing down. Faced with the greatest personal crisis of their lives, Bob and Audrey found hope and rescue through godly counsel an through learning the biblical principle of covering to protect their marriage and their family.

"A fresh look at infidelity, broadening the focus from the havoc it wreaks within a committed relationship to consider also why people do it, what it means to them, and why breaking up is the expected response to duplicity — but not necessarily the wisest one.” — LA Review of Books From iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity comes a provocative and controversial look at infidelity with practical, honest, and empathetic advice for how to move beyond it. An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. What are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book. For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about modern relationships—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations. Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”

Consecutive polygamy (as many husbands or wives as you like but only one at a time) is now an accepted norm in contemporary society. Hardly surprising, since the social, legal, moral and financial restraints holding marriages together for a lifetime have been steadily eroded in a relativist age where anything goes. What is surprising is that divorce and remarriage are becoming as common inside the church as outside, even among Christian leaders and especially in the Evangelical stream. Believers have been outspoken about such issues as abortion and homosexuality though their Lord Jesus said nothing about either. He did say quite a lot about the subject of this book but there is either a reluctance to take his teaching at face value or an eagerness to enlarge his ‘exception’ until it becomes the rule. This volume primarily appeals to those for whom the Bible is the final authority in all matters of belief and behaviour, especially those who preach to, teach and counsel others. The author believes that the church should be leading the world uphill rather than following the world downhill. David Pawson has a worldwide teaching ministry, particularly for church leaders. He is known to many through Christian broadcasting and is the author of numerous books.

Proven techniques to keep your marriage alive and lively from marriage expert Gary Smalley. More than 150K in print In this practical book, family counselor and best-selling author Gary Smalley, with John Trent, reveals a simple yet profound plan for a marriage of depth, warmth, and excitement. Guide your marriage for a lifetime by learning how to make your spouse feel truly honored, keep courtship alive, rebuild trust, and become best friends with your family. According to Smalley, good marriages are no accident. And deciding to love-in the practical ways outlined here-can result in relationships that are tougher than tough times. Love is a Decision is also available in Spanish, El amore s una decision.