Drawing on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and mindfulness practices, this guide offers breakthrough insights and simple techniques for developing deep-seated, long-lasting confidence Too many of us miss out on opportunities in life because we lack self-confidence. Whether it’s public speaking, taking on a leadership role, or asking someone for a date, there are situations in which we just don't feel equipped to handle the challenges we face. Russ Harris offers a surprising solution to low self-confidence, shyness, and insecurity: Rather than trying to “get over” our fears, he says, the secret is to form a new and wiser relationship with them. Paradoxically, it’s only when we stop struggling against our fearfulness that we begin to find lasting freedom from it. Drawing on the techniques of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a cutting-edge form of cognitive-behavioral therapy, The Confidence Gap explains how to: • Free yourself from common misconceptions about what confidence is and how to build it • Transform your relationship with fear and anxiety • Clarify your core values and use them as your inspiration and motivation • Use mindfulness to effectively handle negative thoughts and feelings. “This book could save you years of psychological struggle, yank you out of negative emotional patterns, and help propel you to a much happier, more productive life.” —Martha Beck, author and Oprah Winfrey’s life coach

Become your most confident self by working with your fear—not against it—with this practical guide from the bestselling author of Own It. If perfectionism is holding you back, if you’re stymied by impostor syndrome, or if fear of failure is keeping you from trying, then something’s gotta give. Caroline Foran is here to help. She can’t take away your fear, but she’ll show you that embracing fear is the first step on the road to becoming your most confident self. If you’re on the cusp of any new venture—at work, in love, or in life—Foran’s comprehensive tool kit will give you everything you need to succeed. Learn how to expand your comfort zone with her thirteen foolproof strategies, like: the importance of goal-setting practicing Stoicism, and why it’s the sh*t “fear hacking” and “sidestepping” your way around fear how to fake it till you make it. You have a choice: You can submit to fear and stay comfortable in a cocoon of stability—or you can brace yourself, take control, and own your fears. You got this.

Overcoming fear iѕ оnе of thе grеаtеѕt сhаllеngеѕ that уоu will fасе as you lеаrn hоw tо imрrоvе уоur ѕеlf-еѕtееm аnd ѕеlf-соnfidеnсе. Wе sometimes fасе difficulties аnd challenges ѕuсh аѕ bеing unhарру аt wоrk, bеing unhарру with our bodies bесаuѕе wе рiсkеd uр weight, tоxiс relationships аnd criticism. This rеѕultѕ in us bеing unfulfillеd. Frоm this we аlѕо еxреriеnсе a lоw self-esteem аnd a lасk of confidence -: sometimes wе know thаt if wе could juѕt tаkе a lеар оf fаith and jumр to сhаngе оur livеѕ our livеѕ соuld improve, but wе rеmаin ѕсаrеd of jumрing. Fear аnd аnxiеtу hоldѕ uѕ back. Doubt сriррlеѕ our аttеmрtѕ. Fеаr саn mаnifеѕt itѕеlf in many ways, it саn саuѕе уоu tо bе аfrаid of something аѕ рrасtiсаl аѕ snakes оr heights. However sometimes fеаr саn also affect you in ѕеriоuѕ life decisions аnd ѕtор уоu from taking асtiоn tо ѕuссееd - whеthеr thiѕ iѕ ѕtаrting a new buѕinеѕѕ оr quitting a tеrriblе job thаt dоеѕ nоt help уоu become fulfilled. Thiѕ bооk shows уоu wауѕ thаt уоu саn use to overcome fеаr in уоur life аnd free уоurѕеlf from the negativity that you have come to think that you deserve (you are wrong by the way!).Tаkе асtiоn оn your endeavors and be willing to hаvе a positive learning аttitudе. Thiѕ will help уоu overcome fear аnd imрrоvе your self-confidence.

DIVWill you live in FEAR? Or will you live by FAITH? Fear has the deceptive ability to influence and affect our daily lives and the world we live in. What do you fear most in life? What are the greatest threats facing you? Crime? Violence? The economy? Fear Fighters will help you identify and defeat the very source of fear that threatens you from living in peace and joy./div

Consider this your ultimate guide to confidence. From the Number One bestselling author of Owning It: Your Bullsh*t Free Guide To Living With Anxiety, comes The Confidence Kit, a refreshing take on something that's common to us all - fear. When journalist and author Caroline Foran published Owning It, her bullsh*t-free account of living with anxiety, it became a phenomenal Number One bestseller. Here, in The Confidence Kit, she returns with her unique, down-to-earth style, sharing her essential toolkit for improved self-confidence. Her goal? To take our inner fears and anxieties and turn them into the building blocks of confidence. From understanding the fear of failure and knowing when and how to step outside your comfort zone to tools such as 'fear hacking' and the art of decision-making, The Confidence Kit is jam-packed with practical advice, expert input, along with the author's signature sense of humour. Consider it your ultimate guide to confidence. 'The goal of this book isn't to teach you how to become completely fearless. It's about how you can employ techniques to build your confidence, to own your fears and anxieties -- to bring you one step closer to achieving what you want in life' Caroline Foran

In our world, low self-esteem is a serious epidemic, especially with women. When is the last time you met a woman who felt great about who she was and didn't dislike her own physical traits? Sadly, people who fit this description are very rare. Low self-confidence affects every single aspect of your life, from the way you talk to yourself to how you act in situations. When negative thoughts about ourselves are prevalent, either from other people or ourselves, it ends up taking a serious toll on us. Eventually, too much negativity can give us low self-esteem, reducing our quality of life overall. Without taking action towards becoming healthier, stronger, and more confident women, it's easy to get caught in this never-ending web of negativity and never escape. In the worst case, your low self-confidence can even lead to serious psychological problems like severe depression or anxiety. But this book isn't being written to add to the negativity. This book will be a way to become more aware of who you are as a woman so you can start becoming the confident self you've always dreamed of being.

Instant Wall Street Journal bestseller! From the first female real estate broker on Million Dollar Listing LA, a no-nonsense guide to analyzing big egos, deflecting power plays, and taking control of any room. Behind Tracy Tutor's on-screen persona is an uncanny knack for projecting confidence in the most intimidating of circumstances. The breezy, tough-talking, utterly inimitable businesswoman has rivaled her male co-stars to land increasingly high-profile deals in the world of LA real estate. Now, Tracy is leveraging her years of experience to write the go-to manual for any woman struggling to convince people she's in charge. If you get thrown off course by narcissistic personalities or freaked out by high-stakes situations, don't assume you're weak. When fear is running the show, you get wrapped up in your head and start missing important cues. Yes, the people you're dealing with seem scary, but they're more predictable than you think. Once you understand them, it's easy to push the right levers of influence to get what you want. Through candid, hilarious stories of her rise through a world of misogyny and cutthroat business dealings (text message screen shots from creeps included!), Tracy offers a crash course in the psychology of power dynamics and social signaling. You'll learn: What five things you should always find out about someone before you meet them How to choose the perfect outfit for an important meeting, even when dressing on a budget When and how to use humor strategically to lighten the mood and command authority This book is a must-read for any ambitious woman who wants to win her next business confrontation before she even walks into the room.