This book addresses why dance, a major departure from those books available that tell you hhow to dance.It will help men of all ages see a picture of why they should be dancing, what dancing can bring to their lives and where becoming a confident dancer can lead. More men need to find the enrichment that dancing, not watching, bring to their lives and the lives of those around them. Becoming a Man of Confi-dance can and will change your life - it did for this author. It might be for only one special moment or for years to come. The smile on the face of your daughter or wife when you dance with her for the first time at a wedding or an anniversary will stay in your hearts and memories for the rest of your lives. Reading this book is just as vital for ladies whose husbands or significant others won't dance. Changing the attitude of the man in her life regarding dancing can enhance or breathe new life into long-term relationships, or even help ignite new and exciting ones. with the popularity of shows like Dancing with the stars, our world today promotes, encourages and idolizes dancing now more than ever. This timely book can help a man confidently open the door and step out into this new and exciting world.

Confidance is a provocative and original book of poetry where facts and feelings are imaginarily integrated in to the romance of reality and the drama of surrealism.

Dive into 'Ultimate Confidence Booster for Immigrants,' the second book in the Attract with Accent series. Designed specifically for immigrant men, it offers practical steps to enhance confidence in dating and business. Step 1 in becoming confident is to become free of fears. If you want to date beautiful women regularly, you have to solve your problems with fears. In the chapter Fears in Dating, we will discuss paralyzing fears and how to eliminate them. We also focus on immigrant-specific issues, such as fear of speaking English, and practical tools to free yourself from it. After you finish this chapter, you will know how to make approach anxiety gradually disappear from your life. You’ll become so smooth and relaxed during approaches that women will be remarking, “You are so confident. You are probably doing this a lot.” Step 2 in building bulletproof confidence is knowing what it means to be a real man. In the chapter Real Man, I help you eliminate the false definition of manhood that makes many immigrant men lose their self-esteem and become successful with women in Canada, USA, UK, and Australia. Step 3 in building confidence with women is to know what you want in terms of relationships. In the chapter Relationship Models, you will learn what relationship models bring maximum sex in your life and how to build them. Step 4 in becoming confident is knowing what to say when interacting with women. In the chapter Rebranding, you will learn how to talk about yourself in a way that sparkles attraction. You will understand how to present yourself attractively without lying, even with low social status. You will also learn why you should be proud to be an immigrant and how to use it to your advantage. Step 5 in building confidence is knowing what confidence is. In the chapter Confidence - Myths and Reality, I destroy many myths regarding confidence and dating. You will learn why you don’t have to be confident to be successful with women. I give you many simple, practical techniques to boost your confidence immediately. I also share the secrets of creating outfits that make you feel confident and trigger attraction in women. Step 6 in achieving confidence is creating a solid belief system. The difference between a man who is good with women and an average frustrated guy lies in beliefs. In the chapter Movie Analysis, I present a fun tool for self-motivation and getting rid of unproductive beliefs just by watching popular movies and TV series. You will finish reading this book as a confident man ready to meet attractive women. Sometimes, the settlement challenges make dating tough for us immigrants, but nothing is as bad as it looks. If other immigrants could do it, you can, too!

To be fat in a thin-obsessed gay culture can be difficult. Despite affectionate in-group monikers for big gay men-chubs, bears, cubs-the anti-fat stigma that persists in American culture at large still haunts these individuals who often exist at the margins of gay communities. In Fat Gay Men, Jason Whitesel delves into the world of Girth & Mirth, a nationally known social club dedicated to big gay men, illuminating the ways in which these men form identities and community in the face of adversity. In existence for over forty years, the club has long been a refuge and OCysafe spaceOCO for such men. Both a partial insider as a gay man and an outsider to Girth & Mirth, Whitesel offers an insiderOCOs critique of the gay movement, questioning whether the social consequences of the failure to be height-weight proportionate should be so extreme in the gay community. This book documents performances at club events and examines how participants use allusion and campy-queer behavior to reconfigure and reclaim their sullied body images, focusing on the numerous tensions of marginalization and dignity that big gay men experience and how they negotiate these tensions via their membership to a size-positive group. Based on ethnographic interviews and in-depth field notes from more than 100 events at bar nights, caf(r) klatches, restaurants, potlucks, holiday bashes, pool parties, movie nights, and weekend retreats, the book explores the woundedness that comes from being relegated to an inferior position in gay hierarchies, and yet celebrates how some gay men can reposition the shame of fat stigma through carnival, camp, and play. A compelling and rich narrative, Fat Gay Men provides a rare glimpse into an unexplored dimension of weight and body image in American culture."