This updated and expanded edition provides comprehensive coverage of the theory and practice of counselling survivors of child sexual abuse (CSA). In a reasoned and thoughtful approach, this book honestly addresses the complex issues in this important area of work, providing practical strategies valuable and new insights for counsellors.

“Anyone who had a troubled childhood ought to read this book.”—Anne H. Cohn, D.P.H., Executive Director, National Committee for Prevention of Child Abuse Do you have trouble finding friends, lovers, acquaintances? Once you find them, do they dump on you, take advantage of you, or leave? Are you in a relationship you know isn't good for you? Are you still trying to figure out what you want to do when you grow up? Are you drinking too much, eating too much or trying to numb your pain with drugs of any kind? These are just a few of the problems abused children experience when they become adults. You may not realize you were abused. You may think your parents didn't mean it, didn't know better, or that others had it much worse. You may not even have made the connection between the past and your current problems. Outgrowing the Pain is an important book for any adult who was abused or neglected in childhood. It's an important book for professionals who help others. It's a book of questions that can pinpoint and illuminate destructive patterns. The answers you discover can lead to a life filled with new insight, hope, and love. “The best book available to help survivors cope and understand.”—Dan Sexton, Director, Childhelp's National Abuse Hotline “An invaluable aid for adult survivors of child abuse.”—Suzanne M. Sgroi, M.D., Executive Director, New England Clinical Associates

Presents a model for the treatment of adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse that takes advantage of a relational approach and that integrates psychoanalytic thinking with the latest findings from the literature on psychological trauma and sexual abuse. Case examples illustrate the authors' treatment model. Annotation copyright by Book News, Inc., Portland, OR

Practitioners helping adult survivors of child sexual abuse need to be aware of the thought processes of offenders. The premise of Anna Salter's major book is that those who do not recognize an internalized perpetrator when they hear one will often be frustrated by the tenacity of the survivor's self blame. Primarily oriented towards treating adult survivors, this invaluable book will also be useful for treating sex offenders. It includes discussion of crucial issues such as: what clinicians who treat survivors need to know about sex offenders; the different ways sadistic and nonsadistic offenders think and the resulting different `footprints' they leave in the heads of survivors; how trauma affects survivors' world-views;

4.5 Therapeutic Session Structure for Working with the Initial Stages of the Therapeutic Intervention Model -- Worksheets on Initial Stages of the Therapeutic Intervention Model -- Chapter 5: Working with Memories and Denial -- 5.1 Introduction -- 5.2 Discussion on Memories -- 5.3 Memory Triggers -- 5.4 Reactions to Memory Triggers -- 5.5 Discussion on Denial -- 5.6 Therapeutic Session Structure for Working with Memories and Denial -- Worksheets on Memories and Denial -- Chapter 6: Working with Stages of Child Sexual Abuse -- 6.1 Introduction -- 6.2 Stages of Child Sexual Abuse -- 6.3 Therapeutic Session Structure for Working with Stages of Sexual Abuse -- Worksheets on Stages of Child Sexual Abuse -- Chapter 7: Working with Prominent Problematic Emotions -- 7.1 Introduction -- 7.2 Discussion of the Prominent Problematic Emotions -- 7.3 Therapeutic Session Structure for Working with Prominent Problematic Emotions -- Worksheets on Prominent Problematic Emotions -- Chapter 8: Working with Life Areas Affected -- 8.1 Introduction -- 8.2 Discussion of the Different Life Areas Affected -- 8.3 Therapeutic Session Structure for Working with Life Areas Affected -- Worksheets on Life Areas Affected -- Chapter 9: Working with Complicated Life Roles -- 9.1 Introduction -- 9.2 Discussion on Complicated Life Roles -- 9.3 The Significance of Attachment -- 9.4 Attachment and Complicated Life Roles -- 9.5 Therapeutic Session Structure for Working with Complicated Life Roles -- Worksheets on Complicated Life Roles -- Chapter 10: Working with Integration and Termination -- 10.1 Introduction -- 10.2 Integration -- 10.3 Termination -- 10.4 Therapeutic Session Structure for Working with Integration and Termination -- Worksheets on Integration and Termination -- Index

Successfully navigate the minefield of misinformation that can prevent justice from being done in child sexual abuse cases!From the Foreword, by Robert Geffner, PhD, editor of the Journal of Child Sexual Abuse: “Too often, the public and some professionals have been misled by media publicity and articles . . . that appear scientific, but in reality, are biased opinions or over-generalized research. Forensic cases are being decided in many courts based upon the recommendations of so-called 'expert witnesses’who do not actually know the clinical research or understand the dynamics of such abusive relationships.”This much-needed book points out and corrects misinformation that everyone who works with victims, offenders, or families in which sexual abuse has occurred needs to understand clearly. Especially vital in today's political climate, Misinformation Concerning Child Sexual Abuse and Adult Survivors gives you state-of-the-science information on such myths as “false memory syndrome,” “recovered memory therapy,” and the “lack of harm” to some sexually abused boys.Misinformation Concerning Child Sexual Abuse and Adult Survivors examines: forensic issues, including the “false memory” defense and how the long-term impact of childhood sexual abuse is often misrepresented in court three separate expert examinations of Rind, Tromovitch, and Bauserman's well-known--and often misrepresented--review of long-term child sexual abuse outcomes treatment recommendations and guidelines for addressing the memory controversy in clinical practice the fascinating case history/cautionary tale of the child molester Robert Halsey, who was convicted and sentenced to two life sentences in 1993, and how public and academic resources were misused to claim he was wrongly convicted

Based on the experiences of hundreds of child abuse survivors, The Courage to Heal profiles victims who share the challenges and triumphs of their personal healing processes. Inspiring and comprehensive, it offers mental, emotional and physical support to all people who are in the process of rebuilding their lives. The Courage to Heal offers hope, encouragement and practical advice to every woman who was sexually abused as a child and answers some vital questions, including: -How do I know if I was sexually abused? -Where does the decision to heal start? -How can I break the silence and who will listen? -How can I re-build my self-esteem, intimacy and capacity to love? -What therapy, support groups, self-help programmes or organisations are available?