HAVE YOU EVER DATED AN IDIOT? While the characters and events in this book are fictitious, most people will point to at least one story and say, “That happened to me” or “I dated that idiot.” WHY BUY THE BOOK? Here are some sample lessons that the idiot dating person can learn: A rose may be a rose by any other name, but the name you have says a lot about you. More aptly stated, it’s better to be called “Prince”, then to be called “Dopey.” Use the telephone to give the news that you “Just want to be friends.” Handcuffs are rarely an appropriate accessory for a dinner affair. When you rent fake parents, always get their real names first. When you find a basement bargain, make sure that it’s not in the morgue. If you’re not willing to train them, then don’t get a puppy. If you’ve ever dated an idiot, then this book will hopefully provide some insight into the making of an idiot dating person and in the process provide some laughter.

IS YOUR FORMER SPOUSE AN IDIOT? While the characters and events in this book are fictitious, most people will point to at least one story and say, "That happened to me" or "That's my former spouse." WHY BUY THE BOOK? Here are some sample lessons that the divorced idiot can learn: Practice makes perfect. A secondary lesson being that a dead ex-spouse limits your liability. Don't just infect your former spouse; infect a whole population. Deny everything and then make counter-allegations. While the marriage may be over, the divorce will never be over until death. When you don't feel inclined to discuss religion and politics with your future spouse, then a divorce may turn your head, especially if your former spouse is into Voodoo. A rumor has to contain just enough truth to be believable. Never miss the opportunity to bury the hatchet. Dating your soon-to-be former spouse's attorney ensures a speedy trial. If your former spouse is an idiot, then this book will hopefully provide some insight into the making of a divorced idiot and in the process provide some laughter.

HAVE YOU EVER MET AN IDIOT DRIVER? While the stories contained in the current book are fictitious, the reader will quickly point to the stories and exclaim, "That happened to me" and "That IDIOT tried to run me off the road." WHY BUY THE BOOK? Have you ever felt abused, victimized, or traumatized after taking a drive? The current book presents stories, as though IDIOT drivers would actually apply the lessons presented. Sample lessons include: If you wear the right attire, no one will notice your bad driving. A vehicle is an effective means of extracting revenge. Don't let road conditions influence your decision-making. When appropriately utilized, a radio can tune out complaints.

HAVE YOU EVER RECEIVED HEALTHCARE TREATMENT FROM AN IDIOT? While the stories contained in the current book are fictitious, the reader will quickly point to the stories and exclaim, "That happened to me" and "That idiot treated me." WHY BUY THE BOOK? Have you ever felt abused, victimized, or traumatized after receiving healtcare treatment? Have you ever felt that your healthcare provider wasn't treating you as a real person? The current book presents stories as though idiot healthcare providers would actually apply the lessons presented. Sample lessons include: A job doing once is worth doing twice. While the customer is always right, the patient is always wrong. Attorneys are your friends. When you control time, you control patients. When in doubt, prescribe medicine. Get to the source of all ailments; the patient's head. Only you, as the healtcare provider, knows what is best for the patient. Laughter is the best medicine, especially when you're laughing at the patient. What a patient doesn't know, won't hurt them. The current book provides humourous insight into the making of an idiot healthcare provider.

Have you ever dated an Idiot? Have you ever felt abused, victimized, and traumatized, after a date? This book offers insight into the making of idiot daters.

In this groundbreaking book, a leading clinical psychiatrist redefines how we think about and treat victims of trauma. A "stunning achievement" that remains a "classic for our generation." (Bessel van der Kolk, M.D., author of The Body Keeps the Score). Trauma and Recovery is revered as the seminal text on understanding trauma survivors. By placing individual experience in a broader political frame, Harvard psychiatrist Judith Herman argues that psychological trauma is inseparable from its social and political context. Drawing on her own research on incest, as well as a vast literature on combat veterans and victims of political terror, she shows surprising parallels between private horrors like child abuse and public horrors like war. Hailed by the New York Times as "one of the most important psychiatry works to be published since Freud," Trauma and Recovery is essential reading for anyone who seeks to understand how we heal and are healed.

With “groundbreaking research on the psychology of resilience” (Adam Grant), a top expert on human trauma argues that we vastly overestimate how common PTSD is in and fail to recognize how resilient people really are. After 9/11, mental health professionals flocked to New York to handle what everyone assumed would be a flood of trauma cases. Oddly, the flood never came. In The End of Trauma, pioneering psychologist George A. Bonanno argues that we failed to predict the psychological response to 9/11 because most of what we understand about trauma is wrong. For starters, it’s not nearly as common as we think. In fact, people are overwhelmingly resilient to adversity. What we often interpret as PTSD are signs of a natural process of learning how to deal with a specific situation. We can cope far more effectively if we understand how this process works. Drawing on four decades of research, Bonanno explains what makes us resilient, why we sometimes aren’t, and how we can better handle traumatic stress. Hopeful and humane, The End of Trauma overturns everything we thought we knew about how people respond to hardship.