“Where there is feeling there can be no logic. That would be a paradox, wouldn’t it? This, in a nutshell, is why men and women do not understand each other. In reality, the ‘unspoken’ or ‘implied’ is the basis of communication, and therefore also of seduction and the maintenance of relationships”. Why do men and women not understand each other? Why do conflicts and misunderstandings arise? Is it possible to generate more authentic and emotional connections with others? In this short and valuable essay, the theme of the difficulty of communication between men and women is addressed. It contains techniques and solutions for finding a ‘common code’ between the two sexes: the holy grail of all success in the sentimental sphere. TABLE OF CONTENTS Synopsis WHY MEN AND WOMEN DON'T UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER: HOW TO FIND A COMMON CODE Owls Are Not What They Seem Leave no Room for Misunderstandings The Meta-Message and the 'Unspoken': Nothing is As It Seems Story of a Girl Terrorized by the Words 'I Love You The Reason Men and Women Don't Understand Each Other Men and Women Speak Different Languages The Bad News is That You Are Already Communicating Silences and Monosyllabic Messages How I Turned an Introverted Girl into a Loudmouth We only put up walls to defend ourselves Just a Matter of Time The Basics of Communication: Feedback We are still today dominated by Primordial Impulses Kindness is Revolution Investment and Balance in Communication The Power of Silence and Incompleteness What matters is always what the other person understands. APPENDIX 7 Ideal Features for Your Communication Raising the bar (Paraphrase of Emotions) Exercises in Emotional Paraphrasing Do You Only Communicate With Silence and Anger? Conflict Management in Relationships Are You Dealing With an Introvert? Interpreting Subtext in Communication Why Men and Women Don't Understand Each Other: How to Find a Common Code The Author

A groundbreaking book--based on years of the same thorough research that made the "Dress For Success" books national bestsellers--about how women can statistically improve their chances of getting married.

Cupid's Code takes us on a journey of understanding the emotion that has influenced songs, wars, minds, and culture: Love. We are taken through the worlds of biology, psychology, and anthropology so that we are introduced to new ideas about how we can answer many questions that plague us about our partners and ourselves. Throughout the journey we are introduced to stories, scientific findings, and tackle common ideas that are held in our minds about what makes the other sex tick, and explore how they can be applied to our daily lives. We find the answers to what makes people attractive, how we are seduced, how we can seduce, and what makes relationships work. Cupid challenges us to change the way we are looking at relationships. It enables us to look into the mirror so that we can explore ourselves and entertains that we will understand others through the process. It gives the information needed to be successful, confident, and competent so that we are able to enrich the lives of others. If you are curious about how to improve the quality of communication and understanding of you and your partner, if you are seeking to develop more meaningful relationships, if you are seeking to improve the quality of your life...the secrets are hidden inside this journey.

Crash course in what makes people tick This groundbreaking book from two unlikely collaborators presents the benefits of scientific discoveries in human nature to you in simple, everyday language with a touch of humor and engaging real life experiences. These benefits include: - How to discover your predetermined temperament and that of others - Understanding the roots of the human conflicts that plague us all - Ways to find new power and peace in dealing with people who bug you - How to rise above it all and see the world for what it really is With the proven information presented in this book, things will make sense to you that used to be a mystery. Very likely, you will experience a sense of calm and freedom once you see the beauty and wonder of how our human nature reflects the balance of powers in the universe-from the laws of physics and quantum mechanics to the ways that duality shapes our every experience on this earth. Learn how to improve your relationships, both personal and professional, with Unlocking the T-Code!

Fifty-Five Fathers: Real Men Share Their Stories and Life Lessons about Their Own Fathers by Jeff Paisley busts the biggest myth about men, men do talk. And they have a lot to say. Men will read these stories to get clarification, validation, and maybe advice. Women will read them to see what is going in men's minds and hearts. Fifty-Five Fathers is your chance to share as fifty-five men from 18 to 80 and various backgrounds reveal hundreds of personal stories about growing up with their dads. Each man's chapter is 2 to 8 pages long. After Jeff's father passed away, he started asking his male friends about their fathers. Those stories were so memorable, funny, and insightful, that he sought out and recorded the interviews of fifty-five men as they each answered ten questions about their fathers. Jeff is a recently retired English and Computer high school teacher with thirty years of classroom experience. Fifty-Five Fathers is his opportunity to bring these real men, their memories, and their fathers to you. "Jeff Paisley has written a fascinating book. A lot of these guys were wacky, terrific, fun, really free-spirited people." Pat McMahon of The Pat McMahon Show, AZTV "This is a great book about sons and their memories/relationships with their fathers. In the short time since I have read it, it has helped me understand what my son may need from me as a father." Clay Johnston "This is quite a book. It's terrific-great dynamics between Father and Son. Please buy it." Dan Davis of Good Morning Arizona, KTVK fiftyfivefathers.com

For decades, Clotaire Rapaille's work focused on how people's relationships with the most important concepts in their lives—love, health, and money, for instance—are guided by subconscious cultural messages. But recently, he has uncovered a new phenomenon: a "global unconscious," or core values and feelings that are consistent worldwide—the result of our constant interconnectedness. He has also identified a new group who are paving the way for the future of decision-making: the Global Tribe. These individuals are fluent in the language of culture, untied to any notion of nationalism or ideology. They are defining the key values driving our new world economy, with profound implications for how companies market their products and services. Rapaille takes us on a journey through China, Brazil, India, England and everywhere in between to discover the new standards for luxury, pleasure, technology and education. How can elite brands compete in a world of knockoffs? How can universities maintain their prestige when a cheap master's degree or doctorate is only a click away? We must speak the language of the Global Tribe in order to succeed. Building on seven years of research, Rapaille analyzes how this new mindset has taken hold in various regions, and how marketers and service providers can tailor their offerings and marketing accordingly. The Global Code is an invaluable glimpse at how our new multi-sphere world is affecting us all.

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