When it comes to any relationship, connection is usually one of our top priorities. Yet, when we are in a relationship with an autistic person, in time, we may end up feeling lonely, emotionally exhausted, and disconnected from the person we used to be, from our friends and family, our values, our strength and our needs. Painfully, we may also end up drifting away from our partner/spouse and in some cases, even start doubting our sanity. This creates suffering, which most of the times cannot be understood by people who have not been in similar situations unless they have good knowledge of autism. Even though we feel we are the only ones going through this, many others are going through comparable circumstances, and Resilient Loving offers stepping stones to gradually lead you to a more fulfilling, resilient form of living and of relating with your partner/spouse. Resilient Loving opens a fresh perspective. It presents a series of (mostly) short sections to inspire us to regain our spark, promote serenity and increase our understanding of our partner/spouse and how autism affects our relationship. We can pick up Resilient Loving when we are feeling lost, lonely, bored, curious or exhausted. It invites readers to join the author on a journey of re-discovery of who they are, a deep but gentle (sometimes playful) exploration of skills, needs, values, expectations, and likes. It also offers a host of real-life examples that demonstrate some typical pitfalls in communication in mixed-neurotype relationships and how to navigate them, so that we can have easier and more fruitful interactions with our partners. Mabel Schenone, the author, has been married to a man affected by autism (level 1) for over 30 years. The first 25 years of their marriage included very painful and stressful situations because they were not even aware autism was part of their relationship. A formal diagnosis later on provided Mabel with validation and propelled her into a relentless search for answers and tools to work on herself and her relationship with her husband. After undertaking therapy, completing several training courses, and speaking to many other partners/spouses in similar situations, she identified the need for a practical “compass” to help us when we are struggling and to encourage us to keep on learning and growing. Resilient Loving e-book accompanies you on your journey so that you can feel stronger and more empowered. It is realistic but also hopeful. The e-book includes a link to a FREE 79-page downloadable resource called The Companion, which prompts you to record your experiences in your relationship, your reflections and your take-aways from Resilient Loving as well as offering some additional activities not included in the e-book. IT IS NEVER TOO EARLY OR TOO LATE!

"Resilient Love" is a tale that resonates with the transformative power of patience, understanding, and commitment. It invites readers to witness the evolution of a relationship from discord to harmony, offering a timeless reminder that even the most challenging moments can lead to a lifetime of enduring joy.

#1 NEW YORK TIMES BEST SELLER • From authors of Lean In and Originals: a powerful, inspiring, and practical book about building resilience and moving forward after life’s inevitable setbacks After the sudden death of her husband, Sheryl Sandberg felt certain that she and her children would never feel pure joy again. “I was in ‘the void,’” she writes, “a vast emptiness that fills your heart and lungs and restricts your ability to think or even breathe.” Her friend Adam Grant, a psychologist at Wharton, told her there are concrete steps people can take to recover and rebound from life-shattering experiences. We are not born with a fixed amount of resilience. It is a muscle that everyone can build. Option B combines Sheryl’s personal insights with Adam’s eye-opening research on finding strength in the face of adversity. Beginning with the gut-wrenching moment when she finds her husband, Dave Goldberg, collapsed on a gym floor, Sheryl opens up her heart—and her journal—to describe the acute grief and isolation she felt in the wake of his death. But Option B goes beyond Sheryl’s loss to explore how a broad range of people have overcome hardships including illness, job loss, sexual assault, natural disasters, and the violence of war. Their stories reveal the capacity of the human spirit to persevere . . . and to rediscover joy. Resilience comes from deep within us and from support outside us. Even after the most devastating events, it is possible to grow by finding deeper meaning and gaining greater appreciation in our lives. Option B illuminates how to help others in crisis, develop compassion for ourselves, raise strong children, and create resilient families, communities, and workplaces. Many of these lessons can be applied to everyday struggles, allowing us to brave whatever lies ahead. Two weeks after losing her husband, Sheryl was preparing for a father-child activity. “I want Dave,” she cried. Her friend replied, “Option A is not available,” and then promised to help her make the most of Option B. We all live some form of Option B. This book will help us all make the most of it.

As new research continues to show, the cultural gap between secularism and the convictional Church continues to widen. KidMin and youth leaders are asking, "Are we adequately discipling today's kids to lead the future of the church in a culture that's becoming increasingly hostile to the gospel?" For many, the answer is "no," and a new conversation around making Resilient disciples is emerging. Resilient is an honest calling to ask robust questions about the future; it is a timely conversation in the midst of changing cultural landscapes; and it's a love letter to KidMin leaders and disciple makers to walk this road of child discipleship together. Resilient Child Discipleship focuses on three key areas, essential for shaping long-term faith: Belonging - Highly relational ministry led by a loving and caring adult Believing - Deeply Scriptural ministry rooted in the truth of God's Word and the power of the gospel Becoming - Truly experiential ministry, designed to move kids from simulation to real-world application of faith-based living Resilient equips you with an innovative, biblical and proven child discipleship philosophy to build your ministry around - plus practical questions to equip you and your team! Inspires and facilitates the crucial conversation of our time that will shape the future of the church Loaded with content to help your pastor cast vision and elevate the importance of children's ministry Helps cut through the clutter of the many responsibilities of KidMin to get to the most essential and effective aspects of children's ministry that most influence long-term discipleship into adulthood Child discipleship is the leading factor when shaping the future of your church The culture is changing so rapidly and radically that the future is likely to look far different than the world we know today. The children's ministry community has new conversations to explore as we prepare today's kids to lead the fearless future of the church.

A few years ago, resiliency theory was relatively new to the fields of prevention and education. Today, it is at the heart of hundreds of school and community programs that recognize in all young people the capacity to lead healthy, successful lives. The key, as Benard reports in this synthesis of a decade and more of resiliency research, is the role that families, schools, and communities play in supporting, and not undermining, this biological drive for normal human development. Of special interest is the evidence that resiliency prevails in most cases by far -- even in extreme situations, such as those caused by poverty, troubled families, and violent neighborhoods. An understanding of this developmental wisdom and the supporting research, Benard argues, must be integrated into adults' vision for the youth they work with and communicated to young people themselves. Benard's analysis of how best to incorporate research findings to support young people is both realistic and inspirational. It is an easy-to-read discussion of what the research has found along with descriptions of what application of the research looks like in our most successful efforts to support young people.

These days it’s hard to count on the world outside. So it’s vital to grow strengths inside like grit, gratitude, and compassion—the key to resilience, and to lasting well-being in a changing world. True resilience is much more than enduring terrible conditions. We need resilience every day to raise a family, work at a job, cope with stress, deal with health problems, navigate issues with others, heal from old pain, and simply keep on going. With his trademark blend of neuroscience, mindfulness, and positive psychology, New York Times bestselling author Dr. Rick Hanson shows you how to develop twelve vital inner strengths hardwired into your own nervous system. Then no matter what life throws at you, you’ll be able to feel less stressed, pursue opportunities with confidence, and stay calm and centered in the face of adversity. This practical guide is full of concrete suggestions, experiential practices, personal examples, and insights into the brain. It includes effective ways to interact with others and to repair and deepen important relationships. Warm, encouraging, and down-to-earth, Dr. Hanson’s step-by-step approach is grounded in the science of positive neuroplasticity. He explains how to overcome the brain’s negativity bias, release painful thoughts and feelings, and replace them with self-compassion, self-worth, joy, and inner peace.