What if it's not your fault that sex is bad in your marriage? Based on a groundbreaking in-depth survey of 22,000 Christian women, The Great Sex Rescue unlocks the secrets to what makes some marriages red hot while others fizzle out. Generations of women have grown up with messages about sex that make them feel dirty, used, or invisible, while men have been sold such a cheapened version of sex, they don't know what they're missing. The Great Sex Rescue hopes to turn all of that around, developing a truly biblical view of sex where mutuality, intimacy, and passion reign. The Great Sex Rescue pulls back the curtain on what is happening in Christian bedrooms and exposes the problematic teachings that wreck sex for so many couples--and the good teachings that leave others breathless. In the #metoo and #churchtoo era, not only is this book a long overdue corrective to church culture, it is poised to free thousands of couples from repressive and dissatisfying sex lives so that they can experience the kind of intimacy and wholeness God intended.

Based on data obtained from nearly 100,000 respondents, here is the ultimate resource for anyone who wants to learn the relationship-tested ways couples can achieve satisfaction and contentment in areas such as communication, sex, affection, and financial cooperation. What constitutes “normal” behavior among happy couples? What steps you should take if that “normal” is one you want to strive for? To help answer those questions, wellness entrepreneur Chrisanna Northrup teamed with two of America’s top sociologists, Yale Ph.D. Pepper Schwartz and Harvard Ph.D. James Witte, to design a unique interactive survey that would draw feedback from around the world. What has resulted is the clearest picture yet of how well couples are communicating, romancing each other, satisfying each other in the bedroom, sharing financial responsibilities, and staying faithful – or not. Since the Normal Bar survey methodology sorts for age and gender, racial and geographic differences and sexual preferences, the authors are able to reveal , for example, what happens to passion as we grow older, which gender wants what when it comes to sex, the factors that spur marital combat, how kids figure in, how being gay or bisexual turns out to be both different and the same, and –regardless of background -- the tiny habits that drive partners absolutely batty. The book is dense with revelations, from the unexpected popularity of certain sexual positions, to the average number of times happy – and unhappy -- couples kiss, to the prevalence of lying, to the surprising loyalty most men and women feel for their partner (even when in a deteriorating relationship), to the vivid and idiosyncratic ways individuals of different ages, genders and nationalities describe their “ideal romantic evening.” Much more than a peek behind the relationship curtain, The Normal Bar offers readers an array of prescriptive tools that will help them establish a “new normal.” Mindful of what keeps couples stuck in ruts, the book’s authors suggest practical and life-changing ways to break cycles of disappointment and frustration.

Many couples put more planning into the wedding ceremony than they do for what comes after the wedding. Intelligent, deliberate preparation for a lifetime of sexual leasure is a worthy investment you won't regret. In Getting Your Sex Life Off to a Great Start, renowned sexual counselors and best-selling authors Clifford and Joyce Penner guide you through an encouraging process that begins by dispelling sexual myths and then guides you in getting to know yourself and each other emotionally and physically. With reassuring enthusiasm and straightforward advice, the Penners show you how to clarify your expectations and pursue the joyous marital passion described in Scripture. Through creative, step-by-step exercises and easy-to-understand examples, you'll learn how to: Design a successful honeymoon Prepare for your first sexual time together Choose and use family planning Create a mutually enjoyable wedding night Get past disappointments Keep the spark alive Thousands of couples have discovered the marvelous gift of a positive sexual relationship through the Penners' helpful books and enlightening seminars. As your wedding day nears-or even if you're already newlyweds-this extraordinary book will help you get your sex life off to a great start.

"Hoping to keep having great sex for the rest of your life? Be sure to keep this book next to your bed." —Stephen Snyder, MD It's time to discover that the sex you have later in life can be far superior. Reassuring, honest, funny, and most of all empowering, Great Sex Starts at 50 is the must-have sex and relationships book for men and women hitting half a century with little sign of slowing down. There's no denying that something happens to us sexually at 50. From menopause to the mixed blessing of Viagra to other challenges that go beyond the physical: How do you ignite desire after decades with the same person? Thankfully, information and enthusiasm can help you reclaim a robust sex life—and greater health, as a result. In this easy-to-follow guide, Tracey Cox uses a blend of research, case studies, practical techniques, and personal anecdotes to show you how to arouse yourself and your partner, regain your passion, navigate relationship issues, and create the perfect conditions for sex. Tracey's authentic, trustworthy, and relatable approach will give you everything you need to do it! The perfect book for: • The growing demographic of Gen X and Boomers who want to live well and are leading a new dating and sexual revolution for the over-50s • Fans of Hot Sex: How to Do It • Milestone birthday gift seekers (40th, 50th) • Premenopausal, perimenopausal, and menopausal women looking for a sexual health resource • Medical professionals

Everyone deserves to discover and experience what great sex means for them. The Guide to Great Sex is a manuscript of sexual knowledge written by a former sex columnist who studied human sexuality and openly shared details of his sex life with readers. This guide is the culmination of knowledge gained during that experience as a sex writer. You will learn: What it means to have great sex. The science behind pleasure and orgasms. A complete breakdown of foreplay. Oral sex: fellatio and cunnilingus techniques. 16 of the best sex positions for the hottest sex and deepest intimacy. How sex toys can improve your sex life and which ones the author recommends. The one simple yet rare act that can take your sex life to the next level. How to master multitasking in the bedroom. The balance of dominance and submission. How to communicate openly with your partner about sexual issues. How to unlock sexual fantasies and fetishes within you and your partner. How to overcome 9 different sexual anxieties and insecurities. 3 little-known sexual concepts and how to take advantage of them. And much, much more to help you take your sex life to the next level. The tips and advice in The Guide to Great Sex are 100% gender and sexual orientation neutral. The author phrases terms and describes certain acts to allow everyone to feel included in the conversation. Anyone can learn from these pages, because the author believes that everyone deserves to have great sex. "I started the book 3 hours ago and I just jammed through it. This is both a compliment as to how entertaining it was as well as how easy of a read it is. Making it gender/sexual orientation neutral was an excellent choice and I don't feel like it ever distracted me in any way. As I read through I couldn't help but think I'm going to send this to my little brother in two years when he first steps foot on a college campus as a student. This is a great accomplishment and I'm especially excited to see where you go from here with your site and whatever else you publish. I was thoroughly entertained and definitely informed." -- Jordan From The Author: "I firmly believe that sex is a fundamental need of human beings, and it's an act that should be enjoyed by everyone. I worked hard to improve my sex life. I worked through my sexual anxiety and insecurities, I made myself vulnerable, I read books just like this one, and I made some of the best memories I will ever have. Now my hope is that you will take this knowledge and apply it to your own sex life, to experience what great sex means to you." -- Michael Karp, Author of The Guide to Great Sex

If you ever wonder, Is this all there is to sex? or I wish I knew how to help my wife enjoy this more, you'll appreciate this straightforward, helpful, and faith-based advice on how to have a better sex life. Based on groundbreaking surveys of more than twenty-five thousand people, this highly practical, research-based book shows guys how to rock their wife's world. The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex from popular marriage blogger and speaker Sheila Wray Gregoire and her husband, Dr. Keith Gregoire, will help you: Discover what your wife wants most from you in the bedroom Realize what can derail a couple's sex life and how to get it back on track Find healing from past trauma, previous relationships, and porn addiction Understand your own sex drive and how to keep it revved Learn the secrets to giving your wife the most fulfilling sex she's ever had This can-we-start-tonight? book about making sex wonderful explores how emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy all work together. It will appeal to: Newly engaged couples who want to start their marriage off right Married couples who wonder if sex will ever become what they hoped it would be Readers of The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex Pastors and counselors seeking a resource for helping engaged and married couples The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex also features Couple Projects at the end of each chapter and very specific "Good Guy Dares" to help you woo your wife in and out of the bedroom as you find your way to a delightful, God-given passion.