Good-Enough Mother
Title | Good-Enough Mother PDF eBook |
Author | René Syler |
Publisher | Simon and Schuster |
Pages | 294 |
Release | 2007-03-27 |
Genre | Family & Relationships |
ISBN | 141695127X |
In an ideal world, mothers would have time to hand-sew their kids' costumes for the school play, prepare all-organic meals, and volunteer in the classroom at the drop of a hat. In reality, most moms have to settle for plopping their little ones in front of SpongeBob so that they can prepare yet another chicken nugget-based dinner, guiltily convinced they're falling down on the job. In Good-Enough Mother, René Syler pulls back the curtain to reveal the truth about modern mothering and reassure time-stressed moms that even if their children are strangers to made-from-scratch cookies, they can emerge as happy, well-adjusted, fully functioning members of society. Mother to two great kids of her own, Syler explains how she learned to chuck perfection for practicality -- in short, how she became a Good-Enough Mother. She shows other women seeking to balance family, work, and some semblance of a personal life how to happily join the ranks of Good-Enough Mothers, who occasionally serve breakfast for dinner yet give their children plenty of what really matters -- love, time, and support. Each essay provides welcome empathy and sage advice on navigating life's different obstacles, whether it's dealing with annoying Supermoms, bluffing through a third grader's math homework, or coping with the words that strike terror into every parent's heart ("Your son's teacher on line one"). Offering real wisdom tempered with humor and warmth, Good-Enough Mother will have every modern mom laughing in relief and recognition.
The Not Good Enough Mother
Title | The Not Good Enough Mother PDF eBook |
Author | Sharon Lamb |
Publisher | Beacon Press |
Pages | 202 |
Release | 2019-06-25 |
Genre | Family & Relationships |
ISBN | 0807082473 |
A psychologist who evaluates the fitness of parents when their children have been removed from their custody finds herself reassessing her own mothering when her son falls victim to the opioid crisis. Psychologist and expert witness Dr. Sharon Lamb evaluates parents, particularly in high-stakes cases concerning the termination of parental rights. The conclusions she reaches can mean that some children are returned home from foster homes. Others are freed for adoption. Well-trained, Lamb generally can decide what’s in the best interests of the child. But when her son’s struggle with opioid addiction comes to light, she starts to doubt her right to make judgments about other mothers. As an expert, a professor, and a mother, Lamb gives voice to the near impossible standards demanded by a society prone to blame mothers when anything befalls their children. She describes vividly the plight of individual parents, mothers in particular, struggling with addiction and mental illness and trying to make stable homes for their kids amid the economic and emotional turmoil of their lives—all in the context of the opioid epidemic that has ravaged her home state of Vermont. In her office, during visits with their children, and in the family court, the parents we meet wait anxiously for Lamb’s verdict: Have they turned their lives around under child welfare’s watchful eye? Do they understand their children’s needs? In short, are they good enough? But what is good enough? Lamb turns that question on herself in the midst of her gradual realization of her son’s opioid addiction. Amazed at her own denial, feeling powerless to help him, Lamb confronts the heartache she can bring into the lives of others and her power to tear families apart.
A Good Enough Mother
Title | A Good Enough Mother PDF eBook |
Author | Bev Thomas |
Publisher | |
Pages | 336 |
Release | 2019-04-04 |
Genre | Missing children |
ISBN | 9780571348381 |
A literary psychological suspense thriller for fans of Apple Tree Yard, this novel promises to be as talked about as Lullaby.
Will I Ever be Good Enough?
Title | Will I Ever be Good Enough? PDF eBook |
Author | Karyl McBride |
Publisher | Simon and Schuster |
Pages | 275 |
Release | 2008 |
Genre | Family & Relationships |
ISBN | 1416551328 |
A resource for daughters of mothers with narcissistic personality disorder explains how to manage feelings of inadequacy and abandonment in the face of inappropriate maternal expectations and conditional love, in a step-by-step guide that shares recommendations for creating a personalized program for self-protection and recovery. 50,000 first printing.
Playing and Reality
Title | Playing and Reality PDF eBook |
Author | Donald Woods Winnicott |
Publisher | Psychology Press |
Pages | 192 |
Release | 1991 |
Genre | Psychology |
ISBN | 9780415036894 |
Winnicott is concerned with the springs of imaginative living and of cultural experience in every sense, with whatever determines an individual's capacity to live creatively and to find life worth living.
The Good Mother Myth
Title | The Good Mother Myth PDF eBook |
Author | Avital Norman Nathman |
Publisher | Seal Press |
Pages | 290 |
Release | 2013-12-31 |
Genre | Family & Relationships |
ISBN | 1580055036 |
In an era of mommy blogs, Pinterest, and Facebook, The Good Mother Myth dismantles the social media-fed notion of what it means to be a "good mother." This collection of essays takes a realistic look at motherhood and provides a platform for real voices and raw stories, each adding to the narrative of motherhood we don't tend to see in the headlines or on the news. From tales of mind-bending, panic-inducing overwhelm to a reflection on using weed instead of wine to deal with the terrible twos, the honesty of the essays creates a community of mothers who refuse to feel like they're in competition with others, or with the notion of the ideal mom—they're just trying to find a way to make it work. With a foreword by Christy Turlington Burns and a contributor list that includes Jessica Valenti, Sharon Lerner, Soraya Chemaly, Amber Dusick and many more, this remarkable collection seeks to debunk the myth and offer some honesty about what it means to be a mother.
Good Enough Mothers
Title | Good Enough Mothers PDF eBook |
Author | JM López |
Publisher | Berghahn Books |
Pages | 0 |
Release | 2021-11 |
Genre | Family & Relationships |
ISBN | 180073252X |
Motherhood in Mexico is profoundly shaped by the legacy of colonialism. This ethnography situates motherhood in a critical global health analysis of maternal health inequalities and interventions in the southeast state of Chiapas. Using a transitional life course framework, it demonstrates how the transition to motherhood is never complete. Once a good mother is defined, she becomes undefined, the goal posts moved, and the rules confronted.