The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course. This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. Content Foreword - 7 Introduction - 9 About the Author - - 9 How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11 Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12 Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15 Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17 The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19 Why Does a Man Submit? - 20 The Silence Challenge - - 24 The Femdom Mindset - - 28 The Malesub Mindset - - 30 The SSC Principle - 31 The RACK Principle - 33 Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38 Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41 Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52 The Location - - 52 What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57 Greeting the Mistress - 58 Practical Tips - - 60 Practical Examples - - 62 A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63 Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68 Practical Exercise - - 68 Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69 The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78 The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143 The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144 The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146 The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163 Saying No - - 167 Slave Questionnaire - - 169 Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176 Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181 The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181 The Ruined Orgasm - 185 Forced Orgasms - 186 Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191 The Follow-up Conversation - - 193 Hygiene - - 197 Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198 Goals for Femdoms - - 200 The Session Log - - 201 The Slave Contract - - 202 Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227 Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232 Glossary/Terms - 237 Bonus - 249 Reader comments "A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa "Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela "The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy "Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma

A female-friendly guide to the erotic domination of the male by the female in a way that will benefit both. Each chapter is followed by a self-guided journal section, where you are encouraged to explore and clarify your feelings and responses to the themes being explored, thus helping both lovers illuminate mutual desires, needs and boundaries.

'The morning after meeting Hugh, I was heading out the door when I saw I had a new message. I opened it cautiously and saw six words that made my heart skip a beat. I need to see you again.' Ava Reilly was just starting her career in PR when she was sent to meet one of the industry's major players. She was naive to the ways of the entertainment business, but was determined to make a good impression. What she wasn't prepared for was the electricity she would feel between them from the moment of their first meeting. Soon they had embarked on a stormy, seductive love affair, with liaisons in opulent hotels across Australia and around the world. The thrill of their encounters was tainted by constant pressure to keep their relationship out of the public eye, as the danger of being discovered could put not only their personal lives but their professional lives at risk. Ava also felt the weight of her conscience - she had never, ever imagined herself as the other woman. However, it had been a long time since she'd been able to truly trust a man, and Hugh seemed to be only one who could come close to breaking down the protective walls Ava had built around her heart. Working day to day in an industry where secrets are currency, Ava's lips were tightly sealed about what was happening between her and Hugh - until she began to make her confessions. Confessions of A Millionaire's Mistress is the true story of an innocent young woman who found herself swept into a passionate, irresistible romance with a charismatic, wealthy, powerful man who is used to getting what he wants - whatever the cost.

The ultimate guide to owning your power--and mastering how to use it. How can so many women feel "good and mad" yet still reluctant to speak up in a meeting or difficult conversation? Why do women often feel like they're too much--and, at the same time, not enough? What causes us, at the most critical moments in our lives, to freeze? Kasia Urbaniak teaches power to women--and her answers to these questions may surprise you. Based on insights from her experiences as a dominatrix, her training to become a Taoist nun, and the countless women she has taught to expand their influence, this book offers precise, practical instruction in how to stand in your power, find your voice, and use it well. Learn how to: Embrace your desires as the pathway to your destiny. Ask for--and get--what you need in your life, work, and in the bedroom. Skillfully navigate hearing "no" and any resistance, even your own. Flip power dynamics when someone crosses your boundaries and puts you on the spot. Create new and expanded roles for the people in your life with precise, targeted asks. Whether you're getting crystal clear on exactly what you want, or turning the tables on a man who has shut you up and shut you down, Urbaniak's methods teach women to stand for themselves in every interaction. Part manual, part manifesto, part behind the scenes look, Unbound is a how-to guide to the impossible, the outrageous, the unimaginable--a field guide to living your wildest, best, and most satisfying life.

Fresh impulses and ideas keep every relationship alive and vibrant. The experienced Femdom Lady Sas from Frankfurt/Main has compiled 200 exciting, lustful and erotic ideas for you. Get inspired and use these ideas to make your next session a special highlight. The 200 ideas are divided into six categories: 1. SessionPlay: Ideas for a classic session between Mistress and slave. 2. Role-playing: Ideas for a different role and setting. 3. MindGames: Psycho games for the brain cinema. 4. Humiliation: Ideas on how to make the slave's cheeks blush with shame. 5. Chastity Control: Ideas for a slave wearing a chastity belt. 6. PartyPlay: Ideas for Femdom parties or games with several Femdoms. "It was very enjoyable to read and you have some amazing and creative ideas :) You have given me some lovely lifestyle ideas!" - Domina Liza, UK

In this guide, you'll learn practical steps towards becoming a professional dominatrix. You'll learn how to brand yourself, how to advertise, how to vet clients as well as how to sustain your business. Additionally, there are 24 lessons that I, Aleta Cai, a well-known independent dominatrix in NYC learned through my experience in the industry over many years.

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