This is a resource for women seeking practical techniques to discover, explore, express and embrace their sexual self. This book teaches you specific skills to improve your relationship with yourself (the key to better sex and relationships with others) by assisting you to connect with your core sexual self through intensive reflective questions and strategies. This book will allow you to access and celebrate your unique and beautiful sexuality.

Discover a renewed biblical vision for sex, singleness, and relationships, and transform into an empowered woman of faith equipped to navigate today's dating culture with vision, clarity, and freedom. Let's face it: being single in today's culture as a woman of faith can be a STRUGGLE FEST. But it doesn't have to be. With real talk and straight wisdom, speaker, podcaster, and founder of The Refined Woman Kat Harris says it's time for a new conversation about singleness, sex, and desire. Growing up at the height of the purity movement, Kat knew this much: good Christians don't have sex until marriage. But approaching 30 and thrust into the New York City dating scene, she found a set of rules was not a compelling enough reason to keep her clothes on. Caught between purity culture's rules and popular culture's do what feels good, Kat began a multi-year journey searching for answers to the biggest questions about sexuality and faith: What does the Bible really say about sex? Why does almost everyone deal with some sort of sexual shame? But really--what's a single girl to do with her sexual desire? What if we never get married . . . then what? It turns out Kat was asking questions that countless women were dying to ask but didn't know they had the permission to do so. Hungry for clarity, she researched, wrestled, and discovered a God who wasn't afraid or ashamed of sex and desire as she thought He might be. In actuality, God created sex and desire within humanity and called it very good. Now she believes God desires to restore a generation disillusioned with purity culture and Christian dating, discouraged about their singleness, ashamed of their sexual desire, and uncertain how to practically walk this season out well. Join Kat on her messy, sometimes painful, and always honest journey to discovering God's heart for sexuality, desire, singleness, and our purpose within it all.

Are you ready to fully embrace your sensual and erotic self? For centuries, women have been taught their sexuality was something to be ashamed of and their sexual pleasure was controlled. This wasn't always the case. Eons ago, a woman's sexuality was celebrated: Aphrodite in Greek mythology, Qetesh from Egypt, the Hindu Goddess Kunti, just to name a few. With this groundbreaking book, you will find the courage to leave fears behind, communicate your wants and desires, and set your own boundaries. You CAN unlock your sexuality and reclaim your right as a woman to enjoy sensual pleasures without being judged. If you want to experience every part of your sexual pleasure without shame and frustration, this book is for you. You will find your power to free yourself from society's antiquated and conflicting expectations of being a sexual woman. Within this book you will discover: How sex education programs in public schools continues to fail young women Your most important erogenous zone (hint: it isn't what you think) The amazing hidden secret to your lifeforce Reject shame and give yourself the power to R.E.C.L.A.I.M. your sexuality Breaking down myths about the big "O" once and for all Overcome excessive dryness with the G.L.I.D.E. technique How to find your eroticism and why it's essential to desire Why sex can and should be J.U.I.C.Y. How to give yourself permission for pleasure Awakening the G.O.D.D.E.S.S. inside of you How to take control of your sexual pleasure And much more... After reading this book, you will understand and know how to embrace your sexual pleasure.

Something needs to change. Sex should befreed from all judgment. Sex is neither good norbad, it just is. This is a concept that is eluding manypeople today. The intent behind attitudes within asexual thought, scene, or relationship can vary andchange like a moody child without awareness anddiscipline. Then there are those who stay stuck inuncomfortable and unsatisfying places without payingattention to how they are showing up energetically.This is how they are impacting their own narrative.Energy drives everything, sex included, and wechoose to enjoy the ride or make it a chore. This bookis an awareness tool for identifying your wants,needs and desires sexually as an individual sothat you can navigate life authentically. Tappinginto your sexual energy will give you thecreative edge in business, the deeperconnection you crave, and a new foundtrust in yourself that cannot be takenaway

We all carry sexual shame. Whether we grew up in the repressive purity culture of American Evangelical Christianity or not, we've all been taught in subtle and not-so-subtle ways that sex (outside of very specific contexts) is immoral and taboo. Psychotherapist Matthias Roberts helps readers overcome their shame around sex by overcoming three unhealthy coping mechanisms we use to manage that shame. Beyond Shame encourages each of us to determine our own definition of healthy sex, while avoiding the ditches of boundaryless sex positivity on the one hand and strict moralistic boundaries on the other. Define your sexual values on your own terms, overcome your shame, and start having great, healthy sex.

Is love “blind” when it comes to gender? For women, it just might be. This unsettling and original book offers a radical new understanding of the context-dependent nature of female sexuality. Lisa M. Diamond argues that for some women, love and desire are not rigidly heterosexual or homosexual but fluid, changing as women move through the stages of life, various social groups, and, most important, different love relationships.This perspective clashes with traditional views of sexual orientation as a stable and fixed trait. But that view is based on research conducted almost entirely on men. Diamond is the first to study a large group of women over time. She has tracked one hundred women for more than ten years as they have emerged from adolescence into adulthood. She summarizes their experiences and reviews research ranging from the psychology of love to the biology of sex differences. Sexual Fluidity offers moving first-person accounts of women falling in and out of love with men or women at different times in their lives. For some, gender becomes irrelevant: “I fall in love with the person, not the gender,” say some respondents.Sexual Fluidity offers a new understanding of women’s sexuality—and of the central importance of love.

This ground-breaking resource challenges and equips Christians to think and act biblically and compassionately in matters of sexuality. Sexual abuse, sex addiction, gender confusion, brokenness, and shame plague today's world, and people are seeking clarity and hope. By contesting long-held cultural paradigms, this book equips you to see how sexuality is rooted in the broader context of God's heart and His work for us on earth. It provides a framework from which to understand the big picture of sexual challenges and wholeness, and helps you recognize that every sexual question is ultimately a spiritual one. It shifts the paradigm from combating sexual problems to confidently proclaiming and modeling the road to sacred sexuality. Instead of arguing with the world about what's right and wrong about sexual choices, this practical resource equips you to share the love and grace of Jesus as you encounter the pain of sexual brokenness--your own or someone else's.